How Do You Motivate Your Children To Read?
By charmaine36
@charmaine36 (145)
Jamaica
August 10, 2010 8:56am CST
I have tried giving them books as gifts, getting books about their interest but alas! Nothing seems to work. My sisters and I are avid readers, i have been devouring books since my early teens. Sad to say, none of the kids have adopted this habit. Reading helped me so much with my studies and my writing when i was going to school. I just want what's best for them. Any ideas on getting them to read?
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7 responses
@puddinggirl (93)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
How old were your kids?.. I have this implementation at the house, that there will be no movie viewing , No gameboy, no PSP,no itouch playing , no computer sessions if they will not do oral reading and recitation in front of me. I have this books of short stories and fables.. like 4-5 paragraphs, i bought this book specifically for this intention of mine. Its working.. sometimes they dont touch any of those gadgets anymore and will explore other books that i bought. Have done that since january and its effective.
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@charmaine36 (145)
• Jamaica
10 Aug 10
My kids are ages 12, 13 and 15. I do have reading time with them but i've never tried oral reading, thanks for the tip. Also i've never tried using short stories, just novels and magazines, but mostly teen novels where they read and we have discussions about characters. I like the idea of the fables, they're short and there's a moral to learn from each. Thanks for these suggestions.
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
15 Aug 10
When I was a kid the schools used to do things like "Read X books, get a free pizza from Pizza Hut!" coupons and if everyone in the class read enough we'd end up with a pizza party for the whole class. I loved reading anyway, so it was just a nice plus for doing something I already loved.
Maybe try doing something like that on a smaller scale? "If you read X books, we go out for dinner" or order pizza or something like that.
@charmaine36 (145)
• Jamaica
16 Aug 10
Since i've started using rewards, there's been marked improvement and reading time is much more fun. Thank you all for your suggestions.
@dorothyDauphinee (534)
• United States
21 Aug 10
the best motivation is imitation do they see you reading yourself??if they see you enjoying books they may get the idea it is a fun think to do!
@MirandaKay (231)
• United States
12 Aug 10
My kids like to read but it is not usually 1st on their list of things to do. I make them read but I offer rewards. Right now we are using a card and everytime they finish a book they get a punch. After 17 punches we go out for ice cream. We change out the rewards. Sometimes the reward is bigger than other times. They look forward to it and it encourages them to try hard.
@charmaine36 (145)
• Jamaica
13 Aug 10
This is a great idea, I've never thought about offer rewards, i have reading time which they don't like very much. I'm going to try this with them, thanks for the suggestion.
@deedee420 (15)
• United States
16 Aug 10
My son is to young to read right now but that doesnt stop him from attempting. I didnt try i just sat quietly reading my book one day and he walked over and tried to get my attention but i told him i was reading right then. I let him sit down next to me and i read a little bit to him using animated voices and facial expressions and now everytime i turn around the little munchkin has one of my books (usually upside down) in his lap making funny faces talking outloud to himself trying to look like he's reading. Moral of the story maybe they arent interested in reading alone? It might help to make reading sort of a game and that might get them into books a little bit more? i dont know just trying to help. Thanks.
@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
10 Aug 10
Every child is different. I have one avid reader and one who couldn't care less. I have always provided them with books of interest no matter what.
What kind of topics do your children enjoy? Reading is reading... so provide a variety. Visit the library and look at different styles.
When my youngest was very young, she didn't have the attention span so I would ask her to draw a picture of what I was reading (while cuddling of course)
We continued with different activities such as acting the story out, making up our own endings, finding favourite stories to read over and over again until we knew them by heart. And for the longest time, all she would read were joke books and science experiments.
Just a few days ago, she found a book she was very interested in and read two chapters. I was so excited and so was she. She asked me if she could have a prize if she finished the book (because this really is a big deal) and I told her instead of a prize, I'd buy the next book in the series. This worked for now!
As soon as your children find something interesting and worth reading (to them), they'll engage themselves. But don't forget that not everyone is a book worm. Not everyone has the interest or attention. Not everyone enjoys this hobby. All you can do is simply provide the opportunities!