How do you tell someone no?

United States
August 10, 2010 4:29pm CST
I have a friend that uses anyone she can parents family friends whoever, they don't know how to tell her no, i've alreayd set my boundaries with her so she knows better than to ask me, but the others always come to me and ask for my help, I can't help much because they've already became her safety net and its hard to get someone to listen to you after all you've ever told them is yes, how would you go about, helping someone who came to you for help??
1 response
@reneezoso (392)
• India
10 Aug 10
well. .if u think u can help him/her.. u should definetely go ahead.. it worth giving the effort..who knows the person whom u r helping might be a helper to u someday.. yeah..saying no ..is very hard....its beyond ur boundaries..u shd try to console her and slowly make her believe its not possible to help u at this moment.. it might help... all the best