reality question for new lovers and old lover.
@Zaphan (710)
Philippines
August 10, 2010 8:45pm CST
father vs. mother : whoever wins kids lose?
what can you say about this, any violent reactions or comment is highly appreciated. just post your comments regarding this. if is it true or false.
2 responses
.... Do you think whoever wins the custody of the children lose? hmmm.....
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
11 Aug 10
I can't imagine losing custody of my children during a divorce as a win situation. I would lose out on all the things that are so precious to me. I don't think I hardly hear a mother say that during a divorce. I have had two friends who gave custody over to the dad and as years went by they regretted it. The children who felt their mother should have been by their side and felt abandoned as kids. To live a new life without the bother of your kids is selfish.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
I mean I addressed this to all lovers that are planning to build a family. If they are in the situation like that what will be their decision? nope it's not the custody for me I guess. or maybe... but there are many factors that can affect the child when his parents are divorced.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
If it is true or false?
Actually, parent who's thinking that she/he's a loser because court gave her/him the custody of the children isn't a parent at all. A parent couldn't be a parent without a child.
Either a mother or a father wins children are the loser instead. It is because their ultimate foundation of their identity is broken. We can't deny that divorce contributes pain to each members especially to the young kids even if it says to be "saving " each one's life.
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.@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
yeah I agree with what you have said. It really affect the child. I now the pain because I belong to a broken family, My parents broke up when I was still a baby, What I want to say to all of the other parents like me is this. "NOTHING BEATS THE CARE OF A COMPLETE FAMILY". do you agree?
