Do you judge people by their first impression?

China
August 11, 2010 9:39am CST
Hi,mylotters!Yesterday I have an examination about my coming driver license.The driver official is young and look cool.I saw a guy drove very good and I thought it is no problem for him to pass.However,I am not the official and the fact was he fail.I guess he was ferocious.Then it was my turn.At that time,I was too nervous to drive so that I made a mistake.Oh god!My heart suddenly died.The official didn't tell anything ,so I continue to drive.I felt confuse that he give me pass.How lucky I was!Maybe it's because I am a student and look polite.haha.The first impression is so vital that maybe it will give a big surprise!Have a nice day!
5 responses
@picjim (3002)
• India
11 Aug 10
First impressions create a terrific impact on the other person.Ultimately they do not provide an accurate picture of the person,but they are a powerful source of creating an impression.Kindness and politeness go a long way in creating a good impression.In your case the first impression has been very effective.Happy mylotting.
• China
11 Aug 10
I think our first impression to strangers is very gentle and kind.As two strangers become friends,they can laugh loudly and joke each other.In the view of friends,we look like a free bird.So I consider the god first impression as a respect for strangers.And to be a friend,the daily behavior is more important:)
@reneezoso (392)
• India
11 Aug 10
hmm . first impression can be deceptive... i hace across people who seems at first very tough but they are nicer than the rest... :) so dont judge people at an instant.. five time to understand him or her ..happy mylotting
• China
11 Aug 10
yeah.Sometimes what we see by our eyes treat us.I remember my high school roommate who look quite.But in fact he was very active to talk in dormitory.It is so funny.In our life,we dont have much time to make friends with strangers.At least,we should not act rude which may give others a bad impression forever.haha.
@sanjuks_j (193)
• India
11 Aug 10
This is often said that "first impression is the last impression" but this philosophy failed many times, coz we can be wrong some times to judge a person in a time, because in different circumstances the state of mind can be different. so according to me this is hard to judge a person from his/her first impression. Exception are always there.
@m_perez (506)
• United States
11 Aug 10
I really don't like to judge people by their first impression. Usually someone turns out to be someone that you really did not expect. I don't like judging by first impression but I will admit that I do it.
• United States
12 Aug 10
yes , of course what else am I going to judge them by, aside form appearance the first impression is the make or break thats why its pertinent to carry yourself in an appropriate manner, clean clothes clean hair, neatly tied shoes, fitting clothes not TIGHT not BAGGY but nice fitting clothing. And smile, you come off more easy going than an uptight face.