Easier For Men Or Women? Or Depends On The Person?

Hi lilangelspreschool, I am a very intolerable person when it comes with cheating, i don't do it, and i don't tolerate it. When I'm getting serious with a woman i tell them that if they ever consider cheating, best just leave me because if i find out, its over. No discussion. It is one of the few things i will never tolerate. I have never cheated nor have i been to my knowledge cheated on. I would forgive them the pain they have caused me because it is not healthy for me to carry hate in my heart for anyone. But of course i will not forget and things will never be the same between us so i would just move on. I have known of women and men that have forgiven their partner, but most of those relationships wind up breaking up in the end. So to answer your question, i would say it depends on the person.

I think it doesnt matter whether its the man or the woman who cheated or who's being cheated . It depends on the foundation of the relationship and on the intensity of the situation. Based on personal experience , I forgive easily but I can never forget. I am separated for 6 years now and my husband appears as if there was noting wrong with what he has done to me.

According to me it depends on the person and his mentality whether he or she no matter. Some times men will do that and some times women will. Forgiving a person is neither easy nor difficult or tough. It depends on the matter or issue which is surrounded with that particular person. But most of the issue can be solved by forgiving that particular person.

I dont know about other men. But i would definately forgive my wife and give her another chance. I will love her more than before. She would definately want a shoulder at this time and i will give it to her. I will help her to forget the past and will not create any situations that will taker her into her past. I know its hard for men to do this...But i will.

It depends on the individual, your question is subjective, everyone thinks differently than someone else. I for one think that Cheating is a forbidden sin, especially in a relationship, a deadly sin for that matter. =)

I think men are harder to forgive their so nonchalant and easily move on I feel like they can turn on and off there feelings at a whim. For a woman I think we take more crap than we deserve and often take back lying cheating men over and over again for the most part. we fight over men constantly and its quite disastrous, and a man just moves on. simple as that.

Like most other things in life, I believe it depends on the person. I think the person who likes them self and has good self confidence has the freedom to forgive more easily than someone who is struggling with a poor self image in the first place. The confident person will know that the cheating is not about them, but about the cheater and what is "broken" in their life. The one with a poor self esteem will think they deserved it or did something wrong and need to fix them self to preserve the relationship.

I think it depends on the person really. I would find it next to impossible to forgive cheating. It breaks the trust and changes the relationship so much. I dated a man a few years ago that was always ready to break up with me because he thought i was cheating on him. I wasn't but I ended up breaking up with him. I'm sure if I had really cheated on him there would be no forgiving. If I cheated on my husband I'm pretty sure I would not be here to talk about it.

I think it probably depends more on the person, although you have to take traditional gender roles into consideration too. Men who cheat are "players", women are "wh*res", those kinds of attitudes. And a man who has that kind of attitude is going to have a much harder time forgiving and forgetting, I think.

it's not about being or if you're a man or a woman when getting hurt. it's how a person deal with it. i can forgive and let go easily if we're going to talk about cheating. but as far as i know, my partner is having a hard time doing that. he's good dealing with me when im mad at some other things though but i'm not.

I think that it doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl. cheating hurts everyone, and it really depends on the person (not the gender) to decide how to handle it. Personally, I would leave my boyfriend on the spot and never take him back. It's wrong, and if he did not love me enough to remain faithful in the first place, then I am not going to give him another chance to break my heart. Cheating is just stupid. If you do not want to be with someone, you should just tell them honestly, and get it over with. I think men and women hurt just the same when they are cheated on. It's horrible either way.

It depends on the person. But mostly its easier for men comparing to women. Women are bit less stronger than men. I think some time it also depends in the situation.

i think it hurts both men and women equally but yes men might be able to forgive women easier because men just stop thinking abt the thing that hurt them ulike the women who keeps thinking abt it ..

i think it'll depend on the person, because some people have difficulties in forgiving someone and some easily forgives. It doesn't matter what others did wrong, because if the person forgives easily, even though the things done are serious they'll forgive them easily, and so as the one who forgives with difficulty.

As per the culture of my country, forgiveness is one of the higher noble qualities among humans! A woman is more forgiving in nature than a man as a practice. In comparison with men, women have more power of tolerance also! In case of cheating, forgiving takes more time and patience to accept both for men and women! This is because cheating directly affects the belief level of any person! Thanks and have always a quality of forgiveness!!

I think depends on the person,everyone has own personality,easy to forgive or not.But to be a good people we should easy to forgive.God always forgive people sins.So why not with the people.

I think it mostly depends on the person. But in general men probably do forgive a little bit easier. Here is my reasoning.. Guys tend to go around and date a lot of girls and I think its harder for girls to trust a guy. When a girl finally trusts a guy, and he breaks that by cheating on her, it takes a long time for her to learn to trust again. Atleast that's how I am.

some say Men forget but don't forgive while Women forgive but won't forget. i don't know if this is true. for me, cheating is the wake up call in a relationship. if i or she cheated, something's definitely wrong... you can still work it out but it depends on the people involved. either it makes your relationship stronger or it would taint it. in our 6 years of being together, I've cheated once. she forgave me but from time to time, this "mistake" surfaces again again which is very annoying... i can't do anything about it anymore. :(

i think it depends on the person's attitude on how she or he loves each other... its a matter of forgiving for a person that committed a big mistake in your marriage.. if you love your husband more than he do you could probably forgive easily than him and vice versa with your husband also..its a matter of forgiving the person that you really love that your willing to take all the risk in your relationship...