Is it always necessary to blame someone for our problems?

A belief in Reincarnation will solve the Blame problem once and for all! The theorem of Reincarnation contends that while between physical lives, we get to choose our parents, our relationships,and country of birth, as well as the circumstances of our next physical life. These events are chosen by us, so that we can broaden our experience and in this way, evolve closer to God. People who believe in Reincarnation do not place blame for these obvious reasons.

yes..it does necessary to blame someone if they should be blame for it!if not..don't bother to do so because it will just humiliate you...it's our nature..we do blame others till we realised it is actually us to be blame..we think that blaming someone else will make us feel better...

It's not necessary but almost everyone are pointing on others to blame for every problem they encountered. Great are the few who admitted it's their own fault for having such problems.

What happen in our lives doesn't depend on the actions of others, maybe some but not all because whatever they will do to us still we have a choice on how we will respond.

I had that feeling months ago, my life was being difficult and I started looking for someone to blame. But now I realize that everything I do will make something for my future, it's not all about which person who ruin my life or make it difficult, but it's about me. How can I manage that situation so I can get through it as my responsibility.

I dont know which one is right or wrong but i always blame myself if i have a problem, theres no used blaming on the others. Problems wont be gone just because i, he, she, they admitted it. We should keep going on forward, leaving those problems behind and trying to make ourselves better is the key to everything

Hi there Pose123, The more i grow up and getting older, the more less i blame people around me for what happen in my life..I used to blame my mom and dad when i was teenage,.. for my miss fortune or so,.. but the more i realized that it is all from what was i was thingking and starting to believe in it,..and it was awful, i hope in the future i can more think wise, positifly and believe in it everytime when i'm down.

In my opinion blame is the natural part of the moving on process. After we move on from whatever we look back and see that the blame wasn't really neccessary. My daughter blamed me for a lot but after she got over the fights she looked back and realized that she had just as much blame as I did. Hindsight is 20/20 and that's how blame is as well.

Hi Pose, life is full of problems and if one were to look at it closely one would see that somehow everything seems to be connected.A matter of action and reaction, so it is difficult to blame anyone fully.Everyone has a share in it..The more you become thick skinned and stop giving too much importance to negativities, the easier it becomes to move on and put the past behind you..

Problems are not there for us to blame others, but for us to overcome, it is there to reshape us, it is our training ground for our endurance so we are fitted to the higher position in life. Though people around you are responsible for having a not so healthy environment since you were young, but it is our responsible to overcome those bad things in our lives to be a better and strong person. I have a handicapped, and most people I know does not like me at all, some mock me, or they don't treat me nice and seriously, but I don't blame them, I pity them, why? because at their age with their wealth and accomplishment they did not learn how to love people whole heartedly, they just nice to the people whom they think perfect to fit their world...which is not a favorable attitude to God. James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish it works so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. We are overcomers, no amount of problems can overcome us, and it is all for our reshaping for the higher things God prepare for us, so lets try hard to forgive anyone who hurt us and lets not put grudges in our hearts towards anything and anyone...because it will not complete being in to what God meant for us to be. 1John 1:4-5 for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. Who is it that overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the son of God.

i used to think like this ..like my problems are consequences of others mistakes..but when you realize the truth you will know that you are the one who actually letting anything to get executed whether bad or good...it is just foolishness to blame someone

We blame other people for our problems , because it is much easier to do rather than facing the problem .

No one is to be blame for our problems and there's no such thing as blaming. Blaming someone will not help you solve the problem it will just give you stress and weary.

blaming others for your problem is a defense mechanism. It is a way for these people to cope with these problems, or to just tell yourself that everything is fine... its their fault so go on with your life... :) And about those attitudes we have.. well its something you acquire.. from youre first few years of life, Maybe we can blame our parents but some parents just didnt know that the first few years of life were the most vulnerable part. But sometimes we just cant blame our parents why we are so immature.

i could be plenty of blame to go around in such cases. no, i don't think someone has to blame someone. if someone feels wrong about something then admit it. however, if someone truly feels someone else is to blame then why not go ahead and lay the blame. moving on would be best either way though.

To me I think that a point of view is what causes most of the trouble with problems. If we can change our approach from regret to one of opportunity and look for the soulution insead of wasting time mourning the past we would have a much happier life.

Some people can not be satisfied with a situation if there is nobody to blame. I don't believe that blaming someone for our problems is a necessary thing. It just makes it easier to cope with if we have somewhere to shift the blame. It doesn't make it right, but it makes us feel better.

confused? yes...cause there are times that even you do all the best that you can in a particular things or let say in a situation but you still fail to get what you want...the only thing that would come into our mind is the question...why? so there comes a time that we find something or someone to blame to.,

When I became an adult I never considered the idea to blame others for my problems.Sometimes bad things happen to good people.And sometimes we cause our own problems.You just need to pick your self up and dust your self off and continue on. My parent did the best they could at raising me and I take what I learned from them into my daily life.

Life is a product of personal adventure. Where you are today is a function of your decision yesterday. Agreed that there are some issues in our lives that are just thrown on us, but what we make out of it is what determines where we find ourselves. Your parents may make some mistakes, but you are not the first to have experienced such a misfortune, other had the same type of experience and they have moved on. We must not allow circumstance to shape our worldveiw. Our belief should mould our outlook to life. God is not a respecter of persons, He gives everyone equal opportunity to excel in life. The devil too does not respect anyone, but some of us have decided not to give him a foothold in our lives.