Should "this situation" always be fixed?

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Many times that my father has been blaming for those things that I did not do. Everytime something's not according to his liking even though I'm not the one who cause it, he'll start talking to me as if I did it. Always me. It's unfair. I'm his eldest daughter, not the eldest child, and he puts more responsibility to me than my elder brother and 2 youngest sister. It sucks, it really feels unfair to me. Scolding me for things I did not do. This time, I was accused again, instead of explaining to him that it's not me, I decided to shut up and just let him talk and talk. I thought that, since I'm always blamed, why should I explain myself for something I did not do either way, I will always be blamed since he expects more responsible acts from me. It really is unfair for me. I don't know if you'll agree but I still want to hear what you can say about this. What's there to fix anyway? I don't feel his "fatherhood" anyway. I presently just view him as a statue in our house playing cards all day alone and our allowance giver, nothing more.