How to forgive the Person that hurt you most?

I am sorry to hear it, it is bad. Your friend should break this boyfriend, cause he seems to lie pretty well. He will do it again and again. To forgive is easy, to forget is difficult.

really it is very shame incident. in indain theatrs also same problem. here only talking way to culture. but in theatrs and beaches like that following incident. kissing hugging and extra is very normal today.. really it is viloence.

If I were to forgive the person who has hurt me the most, I would sum up my answer in one word. TIME. Time heals all wounds. Especially wounds from a broken heart, I guess only time can heal it. No matter what happens, even if your friend's boyfriend would chase your friend back.. the relationship won't be the same anymore because of that incident. Talk about being caught red-handed! I suggest that your friend should just end her relationship once and for all. She may give her boyfriend another chance, but it won't assure her that her bf won't cheat on her over again. It's like a disease and I hate it. As for you, be a friend. Comfort and be there for your friend. People who are heart broken needs friends who she can cry on to, who she can seek comfort. Just be there for her as much as you can. In time, she'll recover. In time, she'll be happy again. Best of luck

my God! What a dismay! In front of so many friends what a show! If I was your friend who caught her boyfriend like that, I will end it right at that moment. And if ever he shows me his face again, I will give him a double slap in the face to let him know how much it hurts. There are still may men out there whom he can fall in love with again, He is not the only man in the planet.

I am so sorry to know this. But a person offense is like a scratch on phonograph record. We can't move our thoughts beyond our pain. It keeps repeating, as if we were stuck within its grooves. There is only one way to play beyond it. You have to forgive them, so your heart could take its form again.

hello, your story is not that hurting... Well hear mind. It was a naliyagan festival that i wen to last year. June 2009, I was alone that night but as i walk, i saw my friends and we went eating, drinking smoking. We were in a table with Me as the only gurl. That time i was 3 months pregnant with my bf and i didn't know that yet. I was facing my bf with him is a new girl of his life and we are not over yet. He acted like he didn't see me.

Be strong! yes it is very painful to see that the person you love most, kissing another girl...everything that is happening has a reason..In the future he will find someone who is most deserving than her present boyfriend.

i cant imagine myself if i was your friend i dunno how would i feel but definitely it must be really hurt, but since havent experience it yet so far, being hurt by someone you love can leave you trauma to fall inlove again, but then it has a purpose why did it happened to us , it may be the reason is that they gy really dont have much love to you , jz hard to say it, or maybe he is really a playboy and not serious wid your friend, there are many reasons why, many explanation that your friends has in her mind why did it happend and how when she given all her love to him and then he will jz cheated on her. it hurts yeah it is painful but probably because he is not really for your friend , he is not meant to be with her, at the moment its still fresh your friend cant forgive its because she still attached to him and feels anger, when the times comes when she feels better and get over it thats when she can forgive , because if she still feels anger inside she wont be able to forgive but its not gunna be forever time will come, when shes ready than she can forgive no matter what hes been a part of her life once, they had a good memories still when they were together although it end painfuland woundness in her heart , she can still forgive when time comes, when she is ready