Two LiVes?
By Adeliza1220
@Adeliza1220 (877)
United States
August 12, 2010 5:18pm CST
The hardest thing for me to understand is why do many people carry two lives? What I mean by that is one as a person and another a cyber one! There are plenty of people claiming to be single and bam you find out no they are actually married with kids. What is the big thing with posting that you are single on your facebook but you are not? Why is everyone so boosted into trying to just juggle things that are not true? Posting things that are not true does not make you a better or worse person why is it so hard to just state the truth? I can not understand it, maybe someone on here can help understand.
2 responses
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Aug 10
Because they can. And, if they weren't doing it online they would find a way to do it in real time. Sadly they scoundrels feel excited having people online paying attention to them. Oh, and juggle things they do! Some right up to the time when they seemingly plan to meet with the other person and then they just up and disappear!
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@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Thank you for your response and for giving your view on the topic.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
13 Aug 10
Hello :)
I don't know why is that. May be you must be total looser to have that need to change your virtual life and to pretend that you are something than nothing :) I mean not specially you ... talk about them, you know :D
When i started my relationship with my boyfriend, he didn't write anything is facebook about me. You know, this option where you write that you got relationship with ... "name of the person who is with you". I was wondering why is that. I hoped that he take our relations really serious and doesn't play with me and my life. So i changed my facebook status and wrote that i got relationship, but didn't write his name. But now, 8 months later, we live together :) And actually we started to live together before may be 3-4 months :) I wanted all the world to know that he have me, but it's different with the guys, i guess. They don't like to show their life and relationship to other people, just to friends, to people who they really know are care about :)
@Adeliza1220 (877)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Thank you for your advice and for sharing your experience. In this particular discussion it is actual about a close friend that does this and his way of looking at is very similar all his main friends and family know so that is good enough for him.