I knoW i shouLd not be bothered but I am*

No, you aren't a horrible person for feeling this way. A one who wastes her time on this man, yes. I think you deserve better and should not be wasting time with this guy. He says things to hurt you. He doesn't want to be involved with your children who are his also. Why? And why do you let him get a way with it?

He wouldn't follow his own childs pregnancy but he followed all his firends? wow i can't understand how u feel but i can understand why you feel that way , you have a reason to be bothered. You should talk to him you rreally should a relationship is bult on communication andif he can't effectively communicate with you, you should reconsider this whole relationship.

No I think you have every right to feel hurt. It isn't right that he wasn't there for his own child but is for this friend of his. I do wonder however if maybe he is doing that because he feels bad for not being there for his own? But why he is telling you about it I am not sure, unless like I said, he feels bad about it and in his own way is trying to tell you that he does? Either way I am sorry you feel this way about it, and wish you could do something about it without possibly starting an argument.

Hi, Adeliza1220. You being hurt is not your fault at all. It is his fault. He never was there for you when you had the baby and before then too. So now, he knows every simple detail about his friend's pregnancy. How is it that he can be so concerned about his friend than you?? Are you sure that these two don't have anything secretive going on with each other? It is sad how he is doing you. He acts like you are the last person that he wants to deal with. And it is sad. If this is his baby that you had, then he really needs to start acting like the daddy.

Hi Adeliza1220, I am sorry for your pain. I truly understand that you would be hurting because your boyfriend is now showing more interest in his friend's pregnancy and all that comes with it, than he showed in your pregnancy when you were carrying his own child. Some guys are over-joyed when they find out that they are going to be a father, but on the other hand there are guys who are not ready to be a father and they don't know how to handle the situation, except to be far removed from any of the decisions about the baby. Then, when the baby is born, most of them fall in everlasting love with it. Regret, for not participating in his own baby's before birth could be what he is suffering from. He maybe realizing that he missed the beauty and the experience of sharing in the preparations of bringing a baby into the world. He can't undo the past,so as wrong as it maybe, he is showing the interest that he should have shown you, to another girl. Finding a way to express you hurt to him, without getting into an argument, is a good idea. Good Luck

I should not be bother about any people i can do my workperfectly in my side. i m not distub any other person.it is very risk.