do you need help when solving your personal problem?
By crizjordan
@crizjordan (108)
Philippines
August 13, 2010 3:49am CST
me? I need help by asking advices for me to know what is the right thing to do for my problems to be solved. We have many different problems and some problems we have, are problems that we cannot solved by our selves we need advices and guidance first for us to overcome the obstacles that are caused by our problem.
5 responses
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
13 Aug 10
Hi,
I prefer not to take advice from friends. I would rather look up in the internet or find some organizations who might help. I have an independent mental framework and I am almost always ready to take all the responsibilities of everything that is happening to me. Even when I am being given advice by others, I don't depend on them. I try to verify their theories, if necessary, I even modify them and then assimilate the entire thing to form my own decisions. To be quite honest, it is practically impossible to go without the help of anybody. If we give more attention to what we do we will find out that we are actually taking help from others unknowingly, unwillingly, all the time. Thanks.
God bless you
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
13 Aug 10
hey crizjordan
No one is perfect and this is the reason that one cannot have all the solutions. Now if I am an egoistic guy, I would consider asking for help as the last possible option. But I am not and am open to asking help from people around me when I am not able to resolve a problem. The first I look upon for a solution is my better half and then my parents. Earlier it was my parents and then my social circle but now, I think my wife is wiser than me and so I ask her opinion first.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
13 Aug 10
I do! More heads are better than one. Talking and asking for advice get us started toward solving the problems. Sometimes we may not see things unless we spit them out. It should bring us nearer to the solutions. The least it brings us to an informed perception and judgement.
@christiana81 (717)
• Romania
13 Aug 10
I think i need sometime help to resolve my problems......is better to get advices from friends.
@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Some problems have a solutions . Some don't have . Only you can solve your own problems . But, if you need other peoples help, be sure you have the right person.