First Day

@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
United States
August 13, 2010 9:56am CST
Today my favorite grandson went to his first day of school. Doesn't seem possible that he's that old 'already'. My son had on facebook this morning to say a prayer for kim [my dil]. He said my grandson would be fine but he didn't know about his wife, lol. How many mama's & grandmama's needed a prayer this morn?
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@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
13 Aug 10
I felt the same way when my oldest first started school. Today I walked her to the bus stop, my big 4th grader. I think it is sometimes a harder time for the mom then the child. I know it was for me, she was excited and I was the one scared. Next year my little one will start kindergarten. She needed the prayer today. She saw her sissy get on that bus without her and her bottom lip puckered out and she started balling. I want my sissy, she missed her before we even got back home. Next year when they are both at school I wont know what to do.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Good morning, thanks for your sweet response. Bless her heart, she wanted to go w/sissy. Hope she still wants to when it's time,lol. I'm so anxious to see how ryan likes it. I called him last night to wish him a good day today. I do hope he likes it. Hope u have a happy weekend w/those sweet little girls.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
13 Aug 10
each time i took one of the last 2 babies of mine to school the first day (my youngest daughter and youngest son) i cried...most of the day till i went to get them. reason being, my youngest daughter was 6 yrs after my third child and i thought she would be my last baby. then i had my son, six yrs after her, so i thought this was my last and it was. my first 3 kids were like 1 a year so i was glad to get the break. but i understand the moms pain because of what i thought was my last babies.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
HI BON, Thanks for responding. I think we all know how my dil felt this morning. I thought about calling her but i assume she's at work & didn't want to bother her. My son was acting brave but i bet he was affected to not that he's ever admit it, lol. Hope u have a happy weekend.
• Argentina
13 Aug 10
well its true that it could leave a feel emptyness, when you see your kids grow but....with that you also start to feel the freedom you once had coming back little by little.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
HI Segerer, THANKS for your comment. It is hard to see them grow up so fast. HAPPY weekend to u. Welcome to mylot, hope u enjoy it as much as i do.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
13 Aug 10
ya,i also had a stomach upset when my son went to school for the first time.his teachers there are very good but i was plagued with unreasinable thoughts like how my son will survive for 2hrs without me and so on.............
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
i THINK ALL 'good moms' feel that way. I think most kids handle it better than their moms do, lol. HAPPY WEEKEND.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
14 Aug 10
thanks for telling me i am a good mum,i sure cant expect them from my kids now,to them i am no less than a monster.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
They wouldn't dare let on that u were a good mom, that wouldn't be cool but i bet they know u are.KIDS, GRRRR.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
13 Aug 10
My DIL will also need one soon. Little Ali Lou starts school in a couple of weeks and I have already seen tears! I remember when my oldest started school. I dropped her off...helped her across the street and she headed for the door and never looked back....I however was sitting in the car crying my eyes out!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Thanks for responding, jill. I think all 'good moms' feel the way u did. Ryan had a good day, better than his mom, lol. Hope u are having a good weekend.
@Chevee (5905)
• United States
13 Aug 10
I am praying. I have said a prayer for God to watch over all our kids while they are in school. I understand how the mother of your grandson feels. Her baby going off to school and being away from mommie and home for such a long length of time. But it has to be done and it is for his own benefit. They will get used to it and in the meantime, her baby will develop a lot of skills, like friendship, dependability, education. That's life, we as parents have all been through it. Like the saying goes, "this too shall pass". All of you will be proud of the young fellow. I know it hurts us more than the children. Be blessed.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Good morning Chevee, thanks for your prayers for all the kids. I understand how my dil feels to. I haven't forgotten things like that either. I am already proud of ryan, have been since the day he was born. I just hope he likes it. He's a good boy & i'm sure he will. Happy weekend. Thanks for responding.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
13 Aug 10
I was dreadful when my children started school.By number four began school my husband insisted that I was not to drop her off and that he would do it. she never gave any trouble. I had a boy who cried every day for a year. Yes a year. Do you know what this did to me? I was a total wreck even though the teacher toldme he stopped as soon as I left the classroom. I always am, in need of prayer
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Hi Cynthi, I think all good moms are like that. Oh my, for a year. I know that was horrible, bless your heart. I haven't talked to t.j. or kim today, hope ryan didn't cry. Kim will be to bury if he did, lol. We are all always in need of prayers. Thanks for responding. hugs.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 10
Hi Jo It tore me apart when my 2 started School but it is even harder when they leave School and start to work as you know then your Babies have grown up Good luck to the little Fellow and to his Mum as well
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Good morning Gabs, Thanks for responding. I bet my dil is still crying. It is hard , i haven't forgotten. I thought it was cute what my son put on fb. He's the civil war kid, lol. U see he's still full of it, lol. Don't know where he gets that.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
13 Aug 10
My daughter and the two granddaughters left Minnesota yesterday a. m. for a trip to OKC. by way of Nebraska and Kansas. This grandma needs prayers for them. At the end of this month the oldest one starts preschool. She is bright as a whip but a chatterbox and pretty set in her ways. Needs to learn how to be with other kids. I am sure they will all need prayers then. They do grow up quickly.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
gOOD MORNING gg, PRAYERS SAID FOR YOUR FAMILY, GRANDMA, Aren't GRANDS SPECIAL. hAPPY WEEKEND TO U.
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@BarBaraPrz (47616)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
14 Aug 10
School in August? When did they start this?
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@BarBaraPrz (47616)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
15 Aug 10
Seems counterproductive to have kids in school when they'd rather be out swimming... but I guess kids these days don't play outside much anymore and schools are air-conditioned.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Good morning Barb, kids don't play out like we did that's for sure. We never stayedin thehouse when we were kids. Ryan & i always go out to play when he's here & he loves it. Don't think he plays out much at home. Thank heavens he didn't want to stay out long yesterday because it's soooooo hothere. Happy sunday.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
School has been starting here in august for a long time. Use to be after Labor Day but they changed it a long time ago. Thanks for responding.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
13 Aug 10
He must be so excited to be attending school now. I am sure your grandson is full of excitement attending to his first day at school. But where is his mother? I hope she is well. I think most of us pray everyday as food for our soul, and also pray for others who needed our prayers.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Yes, he is excited, His mother is right here. She was just upset her baby was starting to school. She's like me & can't believe he's old enough to go. My son was just teasing her on facebook. THANKS FOR RESPONDING. hAPPY WEEKEND.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
24 Aug 10
Hi ANTIQUELADY Well I guess in the UK we still have it to got through as my kids don't go back to school after the summer hols until the 2nd September and others in the country go back the week after that. I have done it three times now and it didn't get any easier, I am of course fine now and am enjoying some time to myself and some time to get things done!!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Aug 10
Our schools didn't use to start till after our labor day but they changed it for some reason. I'm sure it gets easier after the first one starts. my boys were 20 years apart so it was hard for me both times. It didn't seem to bother them & i was glad. I'm also very proud of my grandson for being such a big boy. Thanks for responding.
@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Hello my old friend!!!! You grandson is in school already? Time does fly. I remember when my oldest son first went to school. I was more nervous than he was. My little baby was old enough to go to school and would meet new friends. It seems like just yesterday, however, now he is an adult and recently started his first "grown up" job. Make sure to tell us all about your grandson's first day.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
hELLO TO U, SOO GOOD TO HEAR FROM U. Yes, he started this morning. Can't believe it either. They grow up way too quick. Hope things are good w/you & the family. Don't stay away so long. Happy weekend.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
i HOPE U CAN FIND MORE TIME TO BE ON MYLOT.
• United States
14 Aug 10
I am hoping to be on here more frequently from now on. I just don't seem to be able to fit "mylot" into my schedule these days no matter how hard I try. Lately the only time I have had was in the middle of the night, when my eyes are too tired to read.
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• United Arab Emirates
13 Aug 10
this takes me down the memory lane...how must have my mom felt on my first day at school. I love my mom and miss her lots. We dont know what our parents go through unless we become parents some day.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
13 Aug 10
Good morning Edwars, thanks for your sweet response. I'm so sorry ur mom is not with u anymore. I'm sure she felt the same way when u started to school. Happy weekend.
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@ynahh1 (454)
31 Aug 10
first day of school is excited and nervous because we are being puzzle on what will happened to us in the classroom.parents should support children especially in this event in their life.motivate them to enjoy and interact
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
31 Aug 10
Thanks for responding. Welcome to mylot, hope u enjoy it as much as i do. My grandson had no problems w/his first day but his mom did, lol. Moms are just like that.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
14 Aug 10
naw I could hardly wiat for Cheyenne to go to school as an only child she needed the kids to broaden her outlook and she did great and she is so proud to be going to K this year. WHen she got out of prek she hollered bye preK hello K not sudre when she will start back.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
I'm glad she did so well, sure she will continue to do so. Ryan was all carried away w/his first day. His favorite part was getting to carry his lunch on a tray, lol.Thanks for responding. Hope your weekend is going great.
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
I haven't experienced it yet but I guess it is quite exciting sending your kid's son or daughter to school. Perhaps I will be more happier than his or her mom. And of course, my prayers will be nonstop, I guess.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Thanks for your response. The first day of school is quite hard on good moms, lol. My grandson made it just fine. Hope your weekend is going great.
@w1986114 (158)
• China
14 Aug 10
i don't have a grandson,but i think first time always means lot to everybody.first to school,first time to have a date,etc,first times amazing.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Thanks for responding. U are right we all have had alot of 'first's' in our lives. Your kids first's are even more important to u than yours were, i think. Hope u are having a happy weekend.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
14 Aug 10
I can relate! When my daughter was four years old she started kindergarten and she was so excited at the idea of going! We live across the road from the school and since she was two years old she had wanted to go there and play with the children. On that first day she was jumping out of her skin with excitement and I was so nervous! We arrived at her class and after she settled in she said to me, “Mummy you have to go now, okay?” Here I was holding back the tears at the prospect of leaving her and she was asking me to go! I did leave and shed a couple of tears as I walked away although I was glad that she was so keen...What a milestone the first day of her school life...Huge!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Hi Paula,i can imagine how u felt when your daughter said that but it was good she was prepared for school that well. U did a good job. It's hard on moms when your children have all there firsts. Ryan had a great day, thank heavens. Thanks for responding. Happy days to u.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Aug 10
LOL...time certainly does fly. I'm used to mine being in school but I remember when they started and they looked so small in that big ole classroom. I just wanted to scoop them up and get them out of there...lol...I could've used a prayer or two then...lol
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Hi Jenn, Thanks for responding. It's hard to know ryan is growing up so fast. I miss his younger daysbut love his every day. He did alot better than his mom yesterday.lol
• China
15 Aug 10
hi,i am not a father or grandfather, but i really remember my first day to school, nervous, i am crying and crying, so many stangers, teacher, maybe the person scared me at that time. hahh lol.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Aug 10
Good morning & thanks for your cute response. I bet your mom hasn't forgotten it either, lol. My grandson made it just fine, thankl heavens. Happy sunday to u.