What's your definition of being a Loser ?

Philippines
August 13, 2010 2:37pm CST
In my younger days in school , Losers were defined as those who are not popular. Now that I'm an adult , losers were more likely the ones who are not successful in life. It also defines cowardice or simply a failure . If these are the bases of being a loser. I must admit I'd been a loser most of the time in my life. Have you been a loser ?
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@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Nope I've never been a loser! A loser for me is someone who pretends that he/she is someone they are not. Geeks are being geeks, an goth is being what they are, but for those who are not what the seem are losers, hiding behind a mask, afraid what others might say to them. That's a Loser.
• United States
13 Aug 10
I completely agree with you definition. As yes loser are those who intentionally hurt others.
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@Chubsko (51)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
For me being a loser is not trying at all. In life the reality is you win some you some but still you try. a loser doesn't want to try at all.
• United States
13 Aug 10
No honey I do not think you are a loser, if this were the case I'd be the queen. It appears that you have suffered being a victim of circumstances, that's it. Losers are those that intentionally create and or hurt others. Or those that know from the start that circumstances are failures yet will swear up and down they will be winners.