Affairs

United States
August 13, 2010 5:56pm CST
What would suspect you, that your spouce has been having an affair? Leaving for work eariler than the normal time, comming come a little later than expected, argue over dumb little things,limited physical contact, example kiss on the cheek, if I am lucky. I have had this happen to me in the past, and it really stinks. Been remarried now for almost 18 years to someone els, and have been noticing little things like this. Don't see how he would have the time, since we live 2 hours one way from work, and he leaves and comes home within the parameters, but its possiable. He seemed to have a crush on someone at work about 10 years ago, and I called him on it! They were just friends, I believed him. It seemed so then. He used to talk about her all the time. She still works there, but he hasnt talked about her since. I Just found out a family member had a 2 year affair with someone at work, she has a wonderful husband, and two great kids.Never in my wildest dreams I thought she would do this to her family...Talk about shocking!!!!....she works 12 hour shifts, at a hospital. ...My husband has a very stressfull and demanding job, he blames it on that A LOT....I just hope its due to stress, but still that shouldnt effect our personal life.....
2 responses
p3ks626
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
As long as you know that you're husband is trying to avoid her and not really like building a certain kind of relationship with that girl than its okay. I think you also know you're husband and you also know the kind of way he makes friends with so called girl friends. Just keep a closer look.
rosdimy
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 10
Maybe he is, maybe he is not. Taken at face value it can be said that the passion has dwindled due to age and stress. The signs are not exactly the same between a man and a woman. One thing for sure a man is more likely to spill the beans.. Have you heard of the term lunchtime wife? Maybe it is only used in my country but I think you can guess the meaning. Avoid adopting a direct approach. Look for other evidence which on its own is harmless, but brings a different equation when grouped together with the other signs. Hopefully things are like what he said.