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Hi sweetlove - Let me see if I am understanding this situation and if I am not, please correct me. You met a guy online? And he said he loves you and sings songs to you and talked to his parents about you? After some time passes he starts to not communicate with you as much and has lame excuses. Is that right? I just hope I understand before I tell you what I think. I am not certain, but I don't think you have ever met him in person. Now, if all that is correct - if I were you I would back off from him starting right now. I know that is not what you want to do but it is what you need to do. Calling him or messaging him wanting to talk may drive him away. You need to play it cool and let him come to you if he wants to. If he doesn't come to you then you should know now rather than later. Who knows what his problem is? It may be unrelated to you, but if you two are close he should tell you so you would know why he is acting strange. Do you date anyone else? If not, you should. Meet other guys even if you don't feel like it. Don't pin all your hopes on this one guy. He may not be the one for you. And if he is acting as you said I would not message him or call and see what he does then. If he calls don't be all lovey dovey with him. Be polite and friendly but that is all and do not ask him why he hasn't contacted you or why he is acting strange. You should act like you don't even notice anything. I may be old but I was young once and I remember how it was and how it can hurt to be in love. My mama always said there are more fish in the sea. Good luck sweetlove and let us know how it goes - chickabee

hey girl, aren't you just hasty about your feelings or relationship with him? i mean, it takes a lot of time to know each other. Months at least. But if love magic is really in the air, try to confront with him for the last time. But be sure to be ready to whatever he says. If he really loves you, tell him to show that. If he doubts his feelings or said he does not love you anymore, then there be it, do not chase him. Keep in mind that chances do not occur once, but twice the twice of twice of twice of millions. =) move on.

I personally don't have much faith on internet love. May be rarely you can find one true love but most of them are fake just like we come across too many scam sites out there. Finding a legit site like Mylot is difficult. Fortunately you have better options offline as far as finding love is concerned. I think your Filipina man has just played with you. I would be happy if I am wrong.

Hello! Honestly, we have same situation. I met a white american guy in facebook and we do have some video call on skype. He told me he loves me and now he is acting strange. I'm a filipino. I ask sorry for my fellow filipino who did that to you. Anyway, no one could tell exactly what's going on with them, what's the reason behind..... let this thing not affect our life. It's a learning experience to us, not to totally believe those people we met on net.

Forget about him, sweetie. If he doesn't have the time to talk to you, but time to talk to his friends, then he is just playing with you and wasting your time. Please don't tell me those friends of him are on facebook??? TATA.

Hello Sweet, It appears to me that you are in love with this filipino guy you've met on line but I think this guy doesn't love you. Dont trust this guy please, he doesn't care for you. If I were you sweet I'll forget about this guy. He is not supposed to treat you the way he is treating you right now. If I just know this guy I'll punch his face and tell him not to play with your feelings. Love is the most wonderfull thing a person could have and should not go to waste and love on the internet is one love that I dont understand. Anyway you are very pretty and still young so please find someone who will really care for you someone who's not going to play with your feelings. Go out with your freinds..

Sorry to say that a fellow Filipino did that to you. Online relationship is the thing that I will never ever try in my life. To me, those are fake. He might say those sweet words to you but are you really sure he's that sincere? If he really is, I agree what everyone says here, let him come to you. Don't be the first to make a move because that sounds so desperate. Then have a talk and tell him how you feel but be prepared on what might happen.

hello sweet, First i want to say i felt sorry with your situation. Yes,it is really hard to have this online love affair. I believed with internet love affair,coz i've seen already couples who made great love and had their love come true in the real world. All you need is to have sometime with this Guy (Filipino) and see what will happen next. Maybe he is too busy as of now. If love is real,it will be yours. Just hold on and have faith with him. Happy mylotting

Hi, So I guess you guys are having long distance relationship now. By the way,have you met this guy personally? or you guys just started the relationshi online? It is best to make things clear. Long distance relationship need to have lot of understanding on both parties,as you guys can't see and meet each other,only can chat and talk over the phone and trusting each other is very essential to keep the relationship going on. Have a good chat with the guy and talk openly with him on what you feel about him. Since both of you are from different countries,it is best to have meet up with both sides parents to get the relationship going on,make sure they agree to your relationship.

hi! i am sorry to here that. it is just few minutes away before 10pm here in the philippines. i hope he'll call you. if he does i think you need to talk to him and tell him what you feel. but you need to prepare what consequences it may take. just take a deep breath and say your feelings. before anything goes wrong. but if he really is busy. give him time to do his things. he may really want to make some time with you. but there are problems or work to do. so just talk to him so you'll have peace of mind.

All i can say it is hard to find an honest and a loyal men nowadays especially on the net.But do not give up do not loss hope i myself is a testemony of that i meet my husband in the world wide web we are engage for 1 and half year and now we are happily married for 2 years now. I am so happy in my life i never felt so happy in my entire life until now that i marry my husband. But before of course there are lots of hesitation but you know what before i marry my husband i really really pray for this. I pray to GOD that he will give me a good man to be be my husband, spiritually mature and a good christian man. I just keep waiting and waiting and then finally GOD give me my husband. It just waiting for the right man at the right time.

if a man really loves you, nothing can keep him away and if he doesnt nothing can make him stay... oftentimes we do not know the intentions of these guys were chatting to... now they tell us i love you and the next day they become strangers... so its better for us not to hope and expect... but i must admit its quite hard when you start to feel attached to them and when they suddenly change it could hurt us so badly... maybe we just have to deviate our attention and find something better to do in the real world.. the pain does go away. when we find someone new

ive been crazy with four guys on the net one at a time... like now, im chatting with this 29 yr old irish guy for a month already and i think im falling for him..too bad for me..we always chat everyday and seeing his handsome face evryday makes me fall even more harder for him and im afraid the day will come hes going to find someone new in the real world he lives. i dont wanna hope and expect. sometimes he says i love you somtimes he dont.. well its kinda frustrating.. im always thinking about him couldnt get enuf i guess its just another infatuation..i even hesitate to tell him how much i want him..i dont want to think that i love this guy cuz i know time comes we would change and forget each other...find something better to do... im sure it would hurt like hell but i know i can heal in Gods time like how i did in my past...

for me i am never a fan of long distance relationship, as you could not talk to him face to face, therefore there will be time of insecurity. As for me able to see and feel that person emotion would allow me to understand him/her better. but when it comes to love i guess no one is able to give or advise you the best way of handling stuff, so i only could say follow your heart because even when you get hurt at least you won't regret that you have never tried. Good luck and i hope he does love you as he had said ^^

I am also in this situation once. But later on i could hardy handle. We were of same country but we meet in person.com. We chatted for long time and i didn't even know that i was in love with him. Later i realize myself and i told him. But he acted so strange which made me to forget him. It was a very hard for me to forget him. But finally i could. It is always better not to trust whose guys which he never know them. They really hurts us.