How would you know if the guy's into you?

By eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
Philippines
August 14, 2010 4:07am CST
It's really hard guessing the guy's feelings for you. My friend told me that one guy was into me but I got so confused because he's so sweet to me but it's not just to me. He's not a playboy, he's just gentle.
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7 responses
punkrchic101
@punkrchic101 (18)
• United States
17 Aug 10
thats a good question because i'm in the same situation.
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
It's a good thing to know that I'm not the only one who's having difficulty in terms of knowing what's really the feeling that the guy has for us.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
15 Aug 10
maybe he really likes you^^ and he is sweet for you bcs he wants you to like him too^^ if your friend said he likes you is bcs he does^^ she wouldnt lie to u^^ also guys usually are sweet when they want something^^ if they dont care they wont say anything. talk sweet with him also and he might be the right guy for you who knows?^^ why you say he is not to you? sure if he likes you he is for you^^
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
How I wish that he feels the same way for me too. I think he only sees me as a friend.
ehsanji
@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
14 Aug 10
See, If I was into you, I WOULD let you know by doing some naughty things, like calling you on your phone, and smiling at you all the time, maybe sometime touching you... and stuff like that, you know.
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
Well... he's touchy but not only to me. He's not really a pervert, he's just sweet. I can't decipher if he likes me in return because he's close with almost everybody.
dragonangel
@dragonangel (551)
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14 Aug 10
I could say a guy is indeed into us when he cares for us, responds to our needs.He also musn't do the things that could upset us.His eyes are on us, his mind think only for us,his heart beats only for us. If ever he starts to wander away from the things I mentioned, then he looses or might loose his sight on us.
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
With this, I can't really tell. I remember when we had some open forum, he told me that I'm caring and nothing else.
kristeena
@kristeena (358)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
There are some guys that seem to be every girls' man. So, if you want to know that he's into you, see if he laughs at your silliest joke, always ready to listen and protect you. If you have time alone with each other, have the courage to ask him. There's no harm in trying.
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
I'm not good at confrontation. He might think that I'm so desperate. We laugh most of the time when we're together.
quaye_sage
@quaye_sage (5)
•
14 Aug 10
you can't guess a guy's feelings unless he blurts it out to you...but don't lose hope...action still speaks louder than words...guy's are more known to be more on action than to verbal...two ways to know what a guy is feeling is when he is drunk or he is inlove...he may be a gentle man to everyone but there will be a bit of difference when it comes to the love of his life...right?
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
I don't know how to react.
miweikang1987
@miweikang1987 (134)
• China
14 Aug 10
If you want to know his feelings for you ,you should learn about his character.Different people have different way to show their love.It is like what you said that he is a gentlemen.Then his way to show his love will be mild or shy. Maybe his sweet to everybody is a provement of his shy. Because he doesn't even know how to express his feelings. If you pay more attention to him, maybe you will see that. That's my guess. Good luck
eM
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
That's so hard... I don't think I can do it. Oh my! I feel so sorry for myself.