Quality time and quantity time

I am confused. Its difficult to understand the mentality of a female. if you spend quality time with your wife due to your work schedule she will be happy for the time being. But after some time she will expect quanity and if you manage to give it once then you will have to do it always. This has been my problem with time management....

I would opt for the quality time and quality to me is defined as my partner really taking the time to care about my feelings and or how my day was. Not on his blackberry or the both of us writing the bills together. Perhaps he getting that girly movie I have wanted to see and have some popcorn and beverages and laughing together. I get this all the time, and I love it. LOL

Hello dear anna, I always prefer to have the quality time. I don't need him being around yet seems doesn't exists at all. Better him to be with me for just a minute,but worth the wait Happy Sunday

Why cant I have both? I am the kind who wants best of everything, and everything of everything.

Quality time is always a better choice than quantity time. Time together should be cherished. it should be spent in ways that will enrich your life. you can spend countless hours with someone or just a few minutes. it is how that time is spent that matters the most.

Hi anna, definitely quantity of time i prefer, because he is having so much work and he is busy in his business and i don't want to distrube him, if he wants i will help him in his work rather. Whatever the time he is spending with us is fine and happy.

Quality time. The best time is when both partners give each other their undivided attention.Be it 5 minutes, or a whole day, it doesn't matter. I rather be with my guy 5 minutes a day where he Hears me and I Hear him than be in his presence All day but he doesn't acknowledge me or can Really Hear me.

Ideally I would love both but if faced with the choice I would have to say quality time would be more precious. I would rather have one hour of my partner’s undivided attention than an entire day of both of us in the same room not talking because he is glued to the football game on T.V!

Quality time is relative. But if I have as much quantity time I can be assured that my quality time, a few of many, is of real quality. If I have to choose between the two I would rather have quality time than quantity time.

HELLO vijayanths! i would have chosen the two, quantity and quality time, however since you are making us choose between the two, i opt to choose quality time. Why? well, what would i do with so many hours and days with me if my partner is not making it worthwhile? i would rather have him in a short time but on time well-spent. you see, it doesn't matter if we spend a day or just an hour with our loved one. What really matters is that it is a time well-spend, both of you are making it worthwhile, memorable, something to look forward to again the next time.

For meit is kinda hard to choose between the two but if i have to choose i think i will choose quality time. I sure do want to spend time with my husband and have a quality time each other and being happy and contented and not as what you say lots of time bieng together but you are not happy :( i do not like that.

I would choose quality time. Because for me, how many time you spend to your love ones is not important but rather, the quantity or how you spend to your love ones is necessary even though it is in a short moment. You have a long time to spend but you spend it to your loves arguing to them!? is it good. So I will really choose quality time. How you spend is better than how long it takes.

Old Chinese saying goes,a long long time if the two conditions,a bleessing in the day and night.Even two people fell in love with each other should leave their private space,aways from the U.S.Well produced.If you are happy with the time,if not together when the memories do not all happy.This is not it?

if some body wasting my time he\she can go the hell out it's one life don't waste it man\women it's one then you of to hell

naturally quality time....but vijay i can say u that quality time also needs some time...becoz to know each other some time is required...but yes...if u meet some master person...who knows all how, when and where...there surely he could give u quality time within very short period...so it all depends...

I wouldn't choose either of these but if I had to choose I'd probably go with the "quality time" because I would at least be happy for a little while. The thing is why choose either of these. Why not find someone who wants to spend way more then just a little time with you plus they make you very happy to.

I would choose quality time with my husband.It would be great if there was a time where we could spend a whole day with each other,without anyone wanting either of us for anything.Just to spend time together would be great,but we have children so until they all move out or are less demanding that is not going to be a thing that we can do.

Hi, Vijay.:) That is tough.If he can spend more time with me but treats me as if I don't exist, then I'd rather not spend any time with him. What is the use? If, little time but makes me feel so important, I'd be wanting more time from him so I can continuously feel that I am important.LOL In the first scenario,initially, no I don't want that. But, who knows? Maybe when we get to get to have more time, eventually, from that not so quality time we will be able to slowly turn it into a quality time at the end.:) In the second scenario, why can't I have both,dear? More quantity time to spend for quality time. :) Worse comes to worst, then , i'll settle for the latter.:) Have a wonderful weekend, dear.:)

I would prefer to be happy when I am in the company of my spouse. The amount of time does not matter. What matters is being together and being happy. And when you remember your time together when you are alone a small smile should cross your face. That is what would be the ideal companionship.

Quality Time!! When my boyfriend and I were not living together, we just met like twice a week- usually weekends. We spent our time together talking and talking about everything, about us.I cannot explain well but we really enjoyed being together. He made me feel very happy. Now, that we are together in the same house, we spend less time to each other. Wierd, right? Because my boyfriend is addicted to playing online game-Cabal. He doesnt care about his surroundings anymore.