if you and person you love argue much would you give the first step?^^

Yes I stop doing so and listen to her and say sorry, it doesnt matter at all...afterwards all try to make her smile by various methods .. and i did that many times also :) :)

Guilty! hehehe. yeah, even with friends, when there is an argument, I tend to give in just to make the situation calm. And when things are okay, that's the time when I tell them how I felt about the argument. I believe that situation will just get worse and the argument heated when one won't stop to pacify the conversation. It won't hurt to be silent anyway. But of course there will be some instances that I have to stand by my point.

It's my girlfriend who usually who give in first. I think I am a bit spoiled nowadays and sometimes I take her love and understanding for granted. Every time we quarrel I always have the upper hand and she would just stay silent and don't fight back just to keep things back in normal situation. She doesn't like much quarrel. AS for my part I can be noisy then but I would just prepare to keep mys silent if I sense that she already started to lost control. I think we have this kind of secret code that if I am really angry she just stay mute and if she is the one who is angry I will keep my silence.

I try not to, but I still end up hugging him first, or taking his hand first. Hehehe. I just can't stand being angry at him, and usually it just takes one sorry and a hug to melt me away. LOL. I'm such a softy when it comes to him.

Hi, For me, it is fully depend on the situation on why we argue and who is the person who make the mistakes. During my dating time, Most of the time I won't make the first move. As you know,girl like to be pampered and that is me. MY boyfriend has to make his first move to talk to me again.But we seldom quarrel during dating times. Now, we are married and of course, sometimes we do quarrel over small matters and it won't last long. The most after a night, everything will be over and we will start to talk to each other. However,there is a time whereby I will make my first step to start the talking or my husband will be the first to talk to me. Forgiveness is always in my heart and no matter what,he is always my lovely husband.

Me personaaly i am a very egoistic person but when i know that i am wrong and i am the reason for our argument i will go directly to him and i will apologize.

Yes I'm the one who usually take the first step to patch things up. I also hate arguing with my love one. But sometimes my pride will come in my way, especially if I know I'm not wrong that our argument will surely last longer. But I think your not doing anything wrong by making the first move.