if you give happiness u will get happiness

Yes i believed that because the golden rule says "do unto others what you want others to do unto you". so in that way if you give happiness you will also reap happiness...

If you give other person respect & happy , its very good options for you become very satificied & happy.

Hi akn, I am basically a happy person. My maid says so. :) She says she has not seen many households where people are less inclined to fight and argue. That does not mean I dont. I do. For a long time, my relatives were into my life, and I was out of my life sorts of. Anything I asked, my father would refuse. Anything they suggested, would be accepted. Even after that, they went about ridiculing me, and bad mouthing me. My father always gave them monies, even when they had more than us. And I had to struggle it all out. Finally, my father realized that it is his baby he hurt the most, and his child who is in pain and they are the ones who got away laughing right at his face. I dont torment my father - I think, though if he ever talks even a word in their favor, I am possibly up with my verbal arms. From about a month or so, I see a drastic change in his attitude. I dont know what happened. He used to visit them regularly, but he has stopped. He used to call them quite frequently, but even that has stopped. And my father is still happy. He used to say, he cant be like me, cut off from relatives. But now, he chooses to stay away from them. Just yesterday morning he was mentioning it is fun to be at home. So I guess I am a happy person. I dont hurt unless the other person is hurting deliberately. And I cant stand people who know they are hurting and still hurt and after that they say they are or were only joking. People should apologize immediately when they realize they've done wrong.

I thought its always like that, give happiness and you they will also give it back to you. But in my experience, I've seen and observed that who ever wicked gets what the good person deserved. And ever good ever gets what the wicked person deserves. That's how the life is so unfair.