Is Divorce The Right Thing??

Divorce is a difficult set of cards to manage; no matter who you are, what your reasons are for leaving, or how amicable your divorce is. It is difficult enough to give up on your "happily ever after" dreams, but to accept the broken pieces of your family unit is even more of a challenge. The most difficult thing about divorce involving children is that you are now forced to continue a relationship with someone you either don't get along with or that doesn't function in the same way as you. On top of that, as easy as it would be to simply part ways, there is more than a property to settle on. Studies have shown that divorce is not traumatic for children.Yet it is what occurs after the divorce that creates a traumatic experience. Being truly loved by both parents, regardless of whether they live under the same roof or not, is what affects them most. I hope everyone will enlighten this sad reality :) Have a nice day!

I don't think that a small fight should necessarily lead to divorce. However, I don't think that two people should stay in an unhappy marriage. I think that the couple should try and make things better, before they should to end the marriage and get divorced. But this is just what I think.

God hates Divorce. It will spoil your life., and if you have children it make them orphans.so if you are going to married first have cool and plain talking with you would be ... be careful when you select a your better half it is for the whole life not to use for some emotional seconds.

I have been divorced myself. We broke up when when had a small fight, but in my circumstances this fight was like an aftermath of a large fight. She decided to make the fight physical I didn't want anything to do with it. She said don't come back and I didn't. She abused the boys also. Even sexually assaulting the eldest boy. Then she tried to get my mum and dad in jail by lying. She got caught out lying in court, we didn't decide to charge her. I soon got divorced to her and she has kept on ringing me back. I then changed my number. There is no repair from trying to lie to get anyone in trouble to cover up for her mistakes, let alone myself and my family. I can't help but think that this has contributed in my mother going into the grave. Dad blames me for everything she has done so I don't talk to him. I didnt need to hear that. I shouldn't be blamed for what she's done.

Divorce is not the right thing for family with small fight. Arguments can be resolve by family elders who can see all the angles of problems. Even in court, they are trying to settle in finding good solutions for whatever problems within the family instead of giving outright divorce. Parental care must be given to children within the trouble ones.Looking up for the child's future instead of quarreling and heated arguments which results to more unpleasant family relationship and separations of husband and wife.

Sometimes, issues cannot be resolved by simply sitting down and talking over it. Divorce should be the last resort and not the only way to settle an issue.