at what age you started speaking????
By abj163
@abj163 (1037)
India
August 15, 2010 10:32pm CST
hello mylotters.....
when we were born we weren't able to speak....
but later after some year we started speaking our primary language automatically.....
my mom told me that i was able to speak after my 3rd birthday.....
thats very late.....
what about you mylotters???
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8 responses
@Reyachan (589)
• Romania
16 Aug 10
Hello akash :) Your discussion really inspired me. Of course I don't remember those early days when I started speaking, but my mom told me it's a pretty funny story. Apearently, i was able to speak my very first words at about 11 months but, as it was to be expected, i couldn't pronounce them correctly. And , evidently, it made them laugh a lot and me realize i'm doing it wrong. So I stopped speaking. My parents got worried and they were ready to take me to a doctor, when one day they discovered that at night, before falling asleep and in the morning before i called them to my room i was babbling non-stop, trying to pronounce things right :))
Their worries were half gone. I could speak, only I didn't want to. When they asked a pediatrician if I suffer of anything, he replied laughing that the only thing i suffer of is too much ambition :)) And that i was sure to talk in front of them again when I'll be satisfied with the results I got.
He was right. By the time i was 1 and a half, i was talking their ears of, telling them over and over the stories they had read to me or the cartoons I had seen, in my own manner with what i understood, of course.
Don't imagine i could speak perfectly by the time i was 1 and 1/2. I was just...satisfied with my results enough to talk in their presence :)
@Reyachan (589)
• Romania
16 Aug 10
Thanks for your compliments though I'm afraid i can't get too much credit for them :) It's a proven fact that little children are very sensitive to emotions around them and they can see/feel/understand certain things better than adults sometimes.
My own theory is that it wasn't the fact they laughed that stopped me. I didn't know shame as a feeling back than and i didn't fear ridicule. It's just that ..in my mind , what i understood from their reaction was that i was doing it wrong. (the speaking part i mean) And i wanted to do it right so badly! (i've always been a perfectionist and sometimes that can prove a big defect, believe me! :))
That's why i started practicing on my own (another defect of mine is that i tend to think that if you want things done well, you have to do them yourself)
Anyway, I'm glad you liked my story. Now that i think about it, I must've been a tough to handle case when i was a kid :)
@liweiwei0909 (403)
• China
16 Aug 10
^~^ I started to speak at the same age with you. It is really very late, and my mom had to worry about it for a time.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
16 Aug 10
Probaly same with me. My memory goes back to four years old. I remember learning to make the L sound. We lived on a lake and I don't remember how I said the word before. So probably 2 and a half or 3.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
17 Aug 10
I have no idea at what age I started to speak and I can’t ask my mother because she’s overseas at the moment but I can tell you my daughter who is now eight years old started saying a few broken words at around a year. She was making sounds before then trying to speak but I recall her saying, ‘Dada’ at around twelve months of age.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
If you're talking about my first word, I believe I said my first word when I was a year old. My mom told me this. Anyway, I started speaking coherently when I was like 3 although of course my speech was still telegraphic but it made sense.
@lady_di1210 (263)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
My mom keeps on telling me that I started speaking when I was 9 months old. She reminded me of the exact word which I uttered and it was in Filipino dialect. She also told me at that time I was holding a bottle of coke. When my mother took the bottle from my hands I said, "No Way!" This was spoken in Filipino of course but I just translated it. ^_^
@trishasantos (1297)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I think before I turned 2 years old. Because I started going to school at 3. I think I speak fluently when I started schooling, because they accepted me. lol. On the other hand, I believe I have been speaking 2 languages when I started schooling - Native language which is Filipino(I'm from Philippines) and English. My nanny talks to me in English. I have a history about my nickname getting changed because she pronounced it wrong while calling me in English. Plus I started learning table manners in English. *thumbs up for being bilingual at the age of 3*
@therenthead (298)
• United States
16 Aug 10
I started saying my first words when I was a little bit over one year old :)