Scandal: who is always cheating on relationship?
@MademoiselleEma (165)
Malaysia
August 16, 2010 12:47am CST
i always heard about husband and wife divorce, broke up of a couple...my senior broke up with his girlfriend..they said, the girl left him because she have scandal with the other ex-student of the school..my senior saw it with his eyes..in front of him during convocation..i heard a lot about this senior from my friend. my friend said, the other reason why they broken up because on the different of religious..but back of him, she actually have affair with the other guy..so what do you think? who always made the relationship to be broken? who always begin the scandal?
4 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
17 Aug 10
Hi dear,
Once I am into myLot, on a daily basis, I can come through several cases. I think there is some issue somewhere. No one knows where the problem is and how to find out and how to solve it.
When we see a mathematical problem, it may look simple and we think it can be solved easily. By looking on it - it is cool and simple; and when we start to solve it, there comes problems - some are unable to solve, some are don't know how to do it, some are feeling it is not easy when actually started doing.
At the very beginning, all relations are starts at the teen age groups. At that age, we are not much aware of solving the real problems. At this age all look nice and attractive. As times passes, the fragrance will get boring and when we become little matures, we will find someone else are still better and will be an inclination towards them.
In the earlier case, one is in good relation the other will move to someone else. This make a move to split of the relation. After reaching a certain point of relationship, we actually start considering various associated issues and this also will lead to a splitting position.
As both of them know that they are from different religions, they did not given any consideration of the same. Later on this become an issue.
Again, if the teen age relations are breaking down, the main reasons is that it starts in an immature stage where they are pursuing the studies.
We can see that a matured affair will separated very rarely only. Why? Because, they thinks many combinations and their thoughts are matured enough to answer several questions that may arise in the course of life.
Also, the teen age times is not good enough to take decisive decisions. It is advised that while we are in the earlier age group, always enjoy a life of good friendship and if required, have a open and clear vision on married life.
If both are mutually agree with that continue a love relation and of course, this will last for long or end up with a decent marriage. The love prevails and relation become more harder and faithful.
Regards,
Thank-s
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
16 Aug 10
We always come to a decision listening to one side of the story and we always favour the one who is close to us. I dont blame neithe the girl nor the boy is cheating in relationship. Its the situation that is created which leads to cheating.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
i would not take things in their general perspective. there are always people both girl or boy, man or woman who would be committing a mistake and would end up seriously hurting the person they used to love. trials and challenges in relationships would not disappear and even if we do think everything is running smoothly, i guess there would still be some cases where things would cause the indifference and would slightly damage a relationship. In this case, of course the girl having a scandal of her own, her bf would of course not be able to take it, its just too much for him to take that his woman is having an affair right his very eyes! So similarly, im sure if this happened to the boy and he was unfaithful it would turn out the same way too - that the relationship is broken.
@aamir007 (129)
• India
16 Aug 10
In this materialistic world cheating on relationship is very common. We can see it everywhere. I have seen many couples are broken just because of cheating to eachother coz they lost the trust on their patner. If we lost trust once we cant regain it. It is said once we lost our trust then there nothing for relationship.