How to avoid your ex-boyfriend??

@rabajar (134)
Philippines
August 16, 2010 7:51am CST
My ex-boyfriend keeps coming back. We broke up last december 20, 2009 when I found out that he gets the other girl pregnant. He cheated on me and lost all our dreams. We had our wedding plans and all of that has been messed up. Now, he's asking for forgiveness and understanding. He wanted me to still accept him. I don't love him anymore. I have moved on with my life without him. Can you give me some tips on how to avoid him?
4 responses
@mimeux (62)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
He is a waste of time honey. First, he cheated on you and get the girl pregnant. That is the sign that he can't be faithful to you and guys like him is not a husband material. Give yourself a space and think of this many times b asking this question to your self, "Is he worth forgiving and forget everything?" But if your really kind(and dumb) probably you will for give and forget but I think you can forgive but forget? I don't think so. Trust is something like a glass that when its broken you can't put it all together.
@rabajar (134)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Ohh no way! Not anymore.. I'm happy right now without him..
@mimeux (62)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
You can go to the police and report him from stalking to you. :P
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
That's really not problem at all if you don't have feelings for him already. Ignore him totally. Why is there an open communication between the two of you still? If you don't want to change your no. then don't show any interest in anything that he wants including a conversation with him just to make him feel that what has happened was all a thing in the past for you. Maybe he thinks there is still a little chance for you to accept him back is because you are still there for him. Make him feel your distance.
@rabajar (134)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I changed my numbers.. :( He is acting weird and he said that he would kill me if I will look for another guy. Not just me but also my family. Do you think I need to report this to the police?
@jugsjugs (12967)
16 Aug 10
I tend to steer clear of all ex boyfriends,aswell as my ex husband.I think that if a person has treated me bad in the past,then they will do the same again.What i tend to do is cross over the road if i see them walking towards me.If they come to the door do not answer it,after a while i am sure that they will get the hint.
@Marhler (26)
16 Aug 10
Confront him first and tell him that it is really over. and that you have no more feelings for him. Usually a guy stops bugging if he is confronted. Continue living your life, get yourself a new guy as well. :)
@rabajar (134)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I have done that. :( He went to my office, at home, whenever he gets a chance. Mom also told him that its really over between. I am afraid because he's acting like insane lately.