Do you have a crush years ago that until now you can't forget?
By clouds0327
@clouds0327 (1389)
Philippines
August 16, 2010 10:24am CST
I have a crush before, I guess that was 9 years ago... I dont know if it was infatuation or love but everytime I think of that moment I still feel the nice feeling effect... We became friends he had his gf and I had my bf. I suddenly saw him as a friend and not as a a love potential. I recently saw him again somewhere.. and it seem like he have forgotten me already, he doesn't even bother to say "HI" or anything which is ok.. but lately I've been dreaming a lot about him, which is weird because I wasnt really thinking of him.. I want to forget him but don't know how.. He doesn't care for me at all, "as a friend" and there's no point in thinking of him.
How bout you guys? Did you have a crush you can't forget?
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7 responses
@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
16 Aug 10
I had a crush on someone many years ago, I'd say about 18 years ago now. We ended up becoming very close, he was my best friend, and we used to talk all the time. We had a short "fling", nothing serious, but he had a girlfriend, and we never dated because he was afraid to ruin our friendship because he wasn't able to stay faithful to one girl, and said I didn't deserve to be hurt like that.
I still get butterflies when I think about him all these years later. When I see someone on tv that reminds me of him, I get sad because I miss him so much. He was my true love, I never had feelings as strong for anyone as I had for him.
If I had a chance to be with him now, I'd do it in a heartbeat, no hesitation.
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
16 Aug 10
A relationship has to have two parties who love each other and not a one-sided love. Does he love you that time?
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Hi Chispa, I also feel the same way.. I get this "nice feeling" everytime I think of him. Goodluck to the both of you, hope it works out in the end.
@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
16 Aug 10
yes Judge he does,as I said, the only reason we don't date is because he doesn't want to hurt me and he knows he'll end up doing that because he is not able to stay faithful for just one woman
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Well its my love who i loved truly not a crush and now she is my wife, cause i cannot think anyone in her place.
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Wow, that's nice.. Congratulations.. Hope you will always feel the same with her and always treasure her..
@JudgeIronFist (2472)
• Singapore
16 Aug 10
I've had a crush about 1 year ago but I have managed to forgot about her already. Reason? She already had a boyfriend. Maybe the right time hasn't arrived yet.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I have to admit that there is a high school crush of mine that i think of from time to time. When i am feeling down, i like to think of him and high school days. i often wonder where he is and where his life has taken him. Sometimes i also wonder what my life would be now if I had let this be more than just a high school crush.
@ntDelgadoB (16)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
yez..i can't forget my crush...im always dreaming every night...
im always thinking him...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I also had a crush before my teenage times that until i can still remember him.
Maybe becoz he is too good and shy.
He manage to tell me that he also had crush on me when he is about to leave and transfer to another school coz,they had to move house.
I was sad and happy,but,after that we never had the chance to see again becoz after a year i also transferred to other school.
I can still remember his face and i even searched his name on Facebook,but unfortunately i was not been able to trace him.
Maybe,only time can tell if ever we will be given chance to see each other again
Have a good day always
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