Having a sense of humor

All I can say is stay focused and always do your best to make life better. Its when you let the misery take over that really brings you down. We all go through tough times, I just chose to focus on making things better. Until I met my girlfriend, my life had no reason and meaning, and if it wasn't for my sense of humor. wit and just being me, I never would have won her heart. Things are getting better because you are letting it get better and lingering on the misery and problems.

Well i have lost over 8 people last year. I kept saying things well get better and i would start to feel better and some one would die. or some unexpected bill would come. i mean it was horrible anything that could go wrong seemed to go wrong. and i mean in every part of my life. but you have to take the bad with the good. so far this year is a lot better so i was right last year when i said this year will be better. it is good to try to stick to the bright side but things happen.

Thanks for being you! The g-clef is an appropriate profile pic. Music to my ears!

Thanks. I needed that. Take Care.

We all have our down times and it is unavoidable... THAT'S LIFE!!! I just don't understand why some people go through life spreading nothing but MISERY. Glen Frey said it best in his song "I've Got Mine"... "I didn't make this world, I'm in it just like you". Stay happy, stay well, and keep your daughter smiling.

Its true that laughter is the best medicine and its sad because its also true that "MISERY LOVES COMPANY". Some people would rather spread their misery so that they don't feel all alone, when if they would just learn to "lighten up and laugh", they would have to be lost in a world of misery.

Of course, there are times when we need to get serious about life so don't get me wrong, having a sense of humor and being light-hearted is a lot different than being a fool. One thing is certain, because of my light hearted approach, wit, and sense of humor, when I get serious, people do indeed pay more attention to what I have to say. If you are grumpy and always complaining people tend to take a "yeah, yeah OK" attitude and even though they might be "listening" to you, but they aren't "hearing" you. It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round and nobody is perfect. Smile and have a great day! Tom

You will always be yourself, my friend. There is nothing wrong with that! Being yourself only comes naturally.

So true..I find it good to keep a positive attitude and make light of situations because you really do think better with a clear mind that isn't overburdened with stress and aggravation... Live,Love and Laugh.

I'm sorry you feel that way. I find my sense of humor to be just the opposite. People who tend to linger on problems and look for them in just about everything seem to lack a sense of humor. Of course, that's just my opinion. Even at work when a problem arises, I take a light hearted approach towards resolving it rather than getting all upset over it. A clear mind works best.