Have you experienced conflicts with your husband on your early days of marriage?

August 16, 2010 11:04am CST
I have been married for a year now.It feels good to be married to the one you truly love.Though I was really surprised that on our first few months of living together, we did have some conflicts one after the other.I was surprised on how come we easily argue on something.I tried to figure it out as to where the arguments come up and I realized that first is the way we manage housechores is one of the factors and also jealousy in my part as a woman is one of the major reasons.Thanks God these terrible moments of like being a cat and a dog finally vanished as we tried to settle it out and compromise with each other.And now,I'm happily responding to him and he to me, though at times things gets rough again and it's just natural.Then during these times, we give each other a nudge and remind each of the compromises we should be doing.Giving in to each others need now and happily living together.The only key is fo me to look at him and vice versa.How about you guys out there?
1 response
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
16 Aug 10
I am not married yet, sweetie, but that is how the first year in a marriage normally is. You just have to get settled and each of you need to get used to the others styles, then you are done. You will have the occasional little fight, but the making up make it worth it. It sounds that you are happy, though. TATA.
16 Aug 10
Hi there friend!Yes I am happy now that we were able to surpass these trying suiting in moments of marriage.You're still single and you know the fact pretty well.That would only mean you're ready for marriage now then.What do you think?(smiles)
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
16 Aug 10
Not yet, sweetie. I am a bit scared of getting married.