Have you ever been denied a kiss?
By pogi253
@pogi253 (1596)
Philippines
August 17, 2010 12:48am CST
For a torpe or shy guy, mustering enough confidence to make a move on a girl is internal torture. The fear of being rejected perhaps even to a point where the girl is disgusted at your attempt lingers deeply in your minds. So what happens is that guy usually don't have what it takes to initiate a kiss. Shouldn't the responsibility of making the move be that of the womans? Because most guys wouldn't complain at all if you made a move on guys. What do you think?
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4 responses
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
I don't think women should initiate it. What if the guy doesn't like her? She will also feel rejected and it will also be imprinted in her mind. So I guess, the best way is not to kiss someone who is not your girlfriend or boyfriend, so you will not be denied of that display of affection.
@Hoshi_Reed (257)
• Brazil
4 Sep 10
Other than plain asking if you can, it is generally customary to lean in and stop a fraction of an inch away and let her complete the lean/contact. And don't slobber. The first kiss should be closed mouth and respectful.
Once the kissing starts, you should let her be the one to make the first move to open.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
17 Aug 10
No, I have never been denied a kiss, but then again, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 22. I didn't want to kiss anyone until I found the right person.
