How would You accept to yourself that your Girfriend is not yet a Virgin anymore

I dont think its a big deal, maybe it was his ego. If you really love the person,you will accept her/him whatever is her past. If he is angry because his girlfriend is not a virgin anymore. Did he ask himself that he is? If not, why expect his GF to be a virgin and untouched? Most men asking their gf to prove their love to them by giving themselves. So maybe that was what happened to his gf in the past, had mistake. And everyone commit a mistake, we are not perfect. Accept and learn from it.

I have to be honest with what I've observed nowadays. Some guys don't take it as a big deal anymore, unless you're totally grown up. I know that some men treasure their girlfriends so much that they don't want to make love with them until they get married; but PMS being so rampant nowadays, I think it's never been an issue (well, in my own opinion). Let's take this experience of mine as an example. I have a long term (7 years) boyfriend now. Before we made love, I told him honestly that I'm not a virgin anymore. Thank God he's mature enough to accept things. He completely understands the situation. I think there's nothing with that as long as we are willing to understand. If he really loves me, he should accept the fact that I have gotten over my past bf.

You are right. Your friend should accept his girlfriend just as she is. A woman's hymen is not a measure of her value. She is just as lovable as she was before she lost her virginity. Your friend's girlfriend has more to offer than a piece of skin. And her past does not equal her future. She may have made some mistakes in the past, but she is not the same person today as she was then. If your friend continues to focus on the loss of his girlfriend's virginity, he would be missing a lot.

Hi Turingskie .. Well, your friend should not be angry, i wonder where did your friend know if his girlfriend is not a virgin anymore?? By asking her or ... ("I guess you already know") if his reason is the same reason that i quotes, this is the reason why she lost her virginity, only by the previous ex boyfriend, irresponsible man, i just don't like man doing it without any responsible, and just leave the women like that, i'm sorry, because the women usually be the victim and being dump because of the irresponsible man Your friend should married with the girl first before making love with her, that's the right thing

HI Turingskie, I can't help but respond with your discussion even if I am a woman and not a guy. I guess I do understand what your friend was feeling. I think he's thinking more of his EGO here. If he can't accept the fact that he wasn't the first one who did the thing with his girlfriend, I guess he can have the choice of what he really wants to do with their relationship. In our era now, people are mostly liberated and those things are very common already. I think what your friend has to do now is analyze his self. H e should realize what really is important to him. His love for his girl, or the fact that her girl wasn't virgin anymore. If he really loves the girl then there should be no reason to doubt about her. It's just a matter of acceptance. I believe loving someone is accepting her past. Besides, have you asked your friend if he himself was still virgin?? Hehe.. If virginity is more important for your friend,then I think it's time to let go of the girl. I'm sure the relationship won't work anymore if he would often think of that fact..

Ask your friend first if he is a VIRGIN? and if not that explains everything. "Do not demand anything from others if you cant have what your asking for" And is that the reason why he courted the girl thinking that she is a Virgin. common thats kinda lame. Ego lng yan! @Turingskie kudos to your advice;)