voice of my heart...

it must have been hard when this person left you for some one. some guys are not serious and tend to when they grow a lot older. but i guess that would be a karma for him, what if the person he loves doesn't take him seriously once you love some one it's not easy to forget. but you know at least you have done your part in loving him, that's relationship, there's not much of a guarantee.

Love is all trust and belief, if trust is not there then it is no more love. If BF does this, he breaks the trust of true love. So there is no forgiveness or hatred as BF failed to deserve the true love.

well, as I posted earlier, it is always a woman who easily falls in love but harder to fall out of love. Reason? Because we usually invest more emotion in a relationship, and usually forgot ourselves. Acceptance will help you run off pain. Just try to analyze and find out what's wrong, sometimes, because we are deeply inlove to a person, we didn't notice that they feel suffocated with our way of loving them. Accept that everything changes. Though sometimes, we have to accept that we are not perfect. If he found someone new, show him that you can find someone better than him. Move on with your life, don't let someone or something ruin you. Good luck and happy mylotting.

Hi chesaid, Unfortunately, girls just seem to have a harder time moving on when a relationship is over. Maybe this is because they give all their hearts when it come to being in love with this one special guy who probably is not giving a hundred percent to the relationship. Your ex-boyfriend seem to have moved on, and long before you realized it. If he was ever serious about this relationship, something changed and he decided that it was time for him to move on. Maybe He doesn't feel guilt about his actions because of his character, which should have be obvious to you if you were together with him for over a year. No, he is probably not hurting like you are, and you don't deserve to hurt like you are, over him. The trouble in this relationship could not have happened over night. There had to be trouble times that led up to this breakup. There are always signs of trouble if we just allow ourselves to accept them. We could save ourselves a lot of trouble and heartache if we pay attention to changes that take place in a once perfect relationship. No breakup is easy, even if you decided to end the relationship. But, when someone you love and you thought they loved you back, breaks your heart, you think you will never get over them but you do and you will. Good Luck

Hi, For the same words or actions of one we love, while others not, and sometimes it does not find an answer why? Yesterday will not be back, today and tomorrow and every day we fall in love only to watch what is happening about you. You will see many beautiful and then choose not to rush. A hope a new day and discover it who is close and to understand even without words.

hi,chesaid,my ex-boyfriend has been left for 1 years.I was sad when he left.i feel that i lost all the world at that moment.i dreamed him every night.i keep my self as busy as i can every day.with the time past,my wounds gets healed.now i forget him. maybe he is not the one who fit for and love me.i get away from the hurt.i hope you can as i,the time will heal the heart wounds.Good luck

chesaid, The ironic thing is that the more you try to coerce yourself to forget, the notion of 'forcing' will inevitable cause you to remember more intensely. People are unable to release themselves off their past is because they largely prefer to dwell what's in the past than to face what's in the future. It's always a choice for the majority to choose the familiar than to opt for an uncharted territory. Rather the evil you know than the evil you don't. And the root of departure is often not understood spiritually. Many often view failure in relationship as reason to degenerate and not reason to evolve. Some refused their cosmic lesson, while others reiterate their future relationship around previous flaws, forming this classic karmic chain that affects relationship after relationship... over and over again. Only a handful is emotionally wise enough to evolve positively, regardless of whether the motivation to evolve is of malign/benign source. And, I really hope that you are in this category. How long does it need for you to understand the theory of moving on? It depends on how fast you understood the concept of moving on. Because moving on is not simply just logical words said by somebody and you are then 'enlightened' to move on. You must source for the reason within and sell it to yourself. If you do not believe in why you must move on, you will never move an inch. Take care and have a nice day.

So sorry you are feeling this way, it has to be hard, I have once or twice. The only thing I can offer is to tell you that time is all that will heal wounds. We can guess that the other person really doesn't care but in reality they do they just have a tendency not to show it perhaps you may. Feel good about you that you gave it your all and well sometimes things just do not work out no matter how much we want them to. Take time to find yourself and mend the heart. Keep you mind busy as much as you can. Take care and be Blessed.

Hi! I know you're hurting. It may not be easy at first but you will survive the pain. Some men choose to box themselves and never express their feelings. Maybe he thought he'd rather not say anything than utter those words that stab your heart. Accepting all the things that happened can help you move on. Give yourself to love other people. God has better plans for you... the man that will truly love and give his whole heart only to you.

Definitely its painful, I understand how you feel, at this early stage you are totally heart broken. Just pray and release the pain in your heart by crying, just cry, don't be ashamed to cry. Make you self busy doing other stuff and meet other people, if you can travel to other places then do it. Always remember that he is not the only man in this world the one intended for you will just come and always pray.