When the serious disease comes, will you still hold hands with your lover?

Hi dear, As you said, it depends on person to person. But when we analyze the situation, the modern people don’t want to take any worldly things along with them. If I am the person, I will definitely go for her and until it go for a better result. It is a matter of life and beyond. A person who is ready to accept a deceased due to love is a great thing and it should be. But do we can expect a positive response from everyone? No. All want a free and less miserable life. But in this case, there are her parents and relatives, who will definitely take care of her. In many cases, it is difficult get in a happy ending. I just remembered a story. It is not just a story, it is really happened. The girl is still alive and living happily. The boy and girl were in deep love for a long period. They prepared to get married. Mean time, in a car accident, (both were there at the accident) and the girl’s one leg has to be remove as it got fractured. She was a well known dancer and a film actress, who acted in many films as heroin. She got several awards and very popular. After the incident, the guy left her, as she lost one of her leg. She was motivated herself and began to start dancing with artificial leg. Now she does stage programs and would dance nearly 1 hr. programs. She is a well know TV celebrity and her name is Sudha Chandran. So things are like that. Even though, we love someone and mean time if it doesn’t meet the desired requirements, we simply throw away. This is the overall nature of human beings.

I presume I will keep saty with my beloved even if he was infected a serious disease.Maybe he gave himself up as hopeless and treated me badly so as to make me leave him,but I will stick to my love and see him well enough.The reason why I do this is the strength of my love to him,he, as my beloved boy,I should cherish and protect him until he walk out of the difficulties. I will not comment the boy in your story,all in all, they did't get married,so they can not stay in the same boat when the storm comes(just my own opinion)

Yes the girl could not force the guy to marry her if he does not feel that way about her. Love is supposed to be shared between two people and not forced because when it's forced then it is not love it is fake love or something like that. Still many people can accept that, but yeah I can't really critizise the boy or the girl, but this is just my opinion and I will stand by it.

I think its not love that the boy has for the girl. He is a coward i think. I wonder if this is a real situation but anyway, i hate the boy and he really is a boy. He is not a man! Anyway, if the girl will not have a chance to be with someone in this life, she will have a chance in the second life. Much better than the boy who left her.

Welcome to mylot Well true-love should not be confused with lust first, if love is true one must hold hands with lover under all circumstances, nothing can separate them, becoz it is not limited to the body, body can get diseased but never the soul.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor

Hi, it feels sad by just reading the story you shared. I believe that if the boy really love the girl, he would not do that. All I can say is that he does not love the girl enough to go through her sufferings with her. All of us can say that we will definitely not do such thing if we are in the same situation. However, it's easy to say but when it comes to really acting on it, it is different. Although I don't agree with what the guy did, perhaps he has his own reason? Sometimes, I wonder if there is really true, pure love in this world? I ever heard that some animals would even eat their own babies when they do not have enough food. Human beings are selfish by nature and it takes a great deal of strength to walk out of our selfishness and be selfless.

If the boy would had loved the girl from his true heart he would never say that. A lover cant do that! The love from the pure heart would always hold each other tightly. I would never do that to my gf though i am single !