Have you ever been slapped by your partner?
By sweetneelu
@sweetneelu (259)
Mauritius
August 18, 2010 2:42am CST
hi there, do you think when you are in love your partner have the right to hurt you? I know friends whose partner have slapped them when they were wrong. Do you think its fair? At times some people give our partner a small slap but not with the intention of hurting.
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26 responses
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
This is an outrageous thing to do.., and i will never allow myself to be slapped by my partner regardless of how intense our arguments can get... It's a matter of respect.., if both of you are mad at each other.. the respect should stay the same.., that's why you are in a relationship right.., because.., there is love.., respect,, care.., trust and all., we have no right to do physical harm to our partners.., that's awful and degrading..,
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@Brokensoul18 (42)
• Mauritius
18 Aug 10
I would leave him or take a pause till he realises is mistake and promises not to do it again.
@jamuls (530)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
i get slap all the time! i asked why she does this and she told me that it's 1 way for her of showing her love. pffft! sadistic b*tch! lol! it doesn't hurt me, just a slight tap on my face but it's still a slap. she did however slapped me with a real one and i deserved it but i wouldn't tell it here. i would really tell you slappers to not do this to your partners in public... for me, it degrades the moral and can cause some awkwardness to the people around you.
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@sweetneelu (259)
• Mauritius
18 Aug 10
hi there, if you don't like getting slapped you should tell your girl to change her way of loving.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
19 Aug 10
I have been with my husband for 20 years. He nor I have ever slapped each other. Or hit. I came from a abusive home and he knows this and he was told it would be one terms for divorce before we even married. And that their won't be no take backs, no apologizing will be permitted. I have to be that way. I can't open myself to let abuse happen and be a victim anymore. After I married, I wanted to be safe,feel safe. And although he does annoy me and we do argue we have never hit each other.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
19 Aug 10
I was slapped and pushed by a guy I was living with. I called the cops and they came & escorted him out.
@PriscaJoanne10 (292)
• Mauritius
18 Aug 10
Hitting someone is wrong and specially when its your partner as when you have start doing it , it will always come automatically for anything which went wrong or any fights...
When you love someone there is fights that comes and goes but i dont believe slapping will be a solution im sure that the person will never forget that slap and it might also turn the relationship bitter...
@mithun0836 (15)
• India
19 Aug 10
hi i think slapping is not the right thing to do. if your partner has done something wrong you should tell him or her the mistake he/she has committed rather than physically slapping. because it may hurt you more inner side than on your cheek. so in my point of view slapping is not the way to express your feelings.
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@TheKingMan (292)
• India
19 Aug 10
How does he react when you hit him?
Does he hit you back or does he try to cool you down?
If he tries to cool you down, then in what way?
Please answer, because this will help me when I will have a partner.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
no one has ever tried to lay hands on me... otherwise, i would have been in jail...
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
24 Aug 10
Hi sweetneelu welcome again
I just don't think that a guy has the right to slap his girl or vice versa, not even hurting the feelings in any other manner, it would be certainly unfair..
Well i am happily married for past 44 years and we are a loving understanding couple,,
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always.
Cheers.
Professor
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Yes, I have been slapped by my husband once. But that was because I fainted and he was in a panic and didn't know what to do. And no, being in a romantic relationship doesn't give you ANY right to physically hurt your partner. That would be abuse and would lead into a vicious cycle.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I don't want anybody to slap me even I commit mistakes! They can talk to me or maybe they can shout if they're mad but please not physically. It's not fair that your partner will slap you just because you did something wrong. I'm glad that my partner did not try to hurt me physically and never think about it!
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
Gosh! I think it's violence against women if you're husband will do that kind of thing. It's not right to hurt a person physically specially if it's a woman who is weaker. Maybe some people can do that unintentionally because of the sudden burst of uncontrollable emotions but I can justify that kind of action. Maybe the person should learn how to manage his/her anger so he/she can't hurt anyone. It may resulted to legal problems as well.
@sweetneelu (259)
• Mauritius
18 Aug 10
hi, also we may say loads of things it still exists. there are women/Man who are mentally and physically tortured by their partner. They do not disclose anything maybe out of fear or shame. Very few of them have the courage to stand and seek help.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
18 Aug 10
Hiya sweetnee,
No one should ever slap the other for anything at all. If they do they are showing some strange kind of love towards the other.
For me this has never happened either. There is either trust and good harmony between the couple or there is not.
Slapping is a no no for me.
If he is in love with me that does not give him the right to hit me when he feels like it.
For me it would be the first and the last time ever.
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
I have been slapped once but it wasn't my partner. It was a girl I used to court before back in my high school days I can't remember why did she slapped me I think I did got an amnesia after she slapped me lol. No I was slapped because I was a girl and I'm courting a girl too, hahahahaha I was young back then and I get attracted with girls but this day I'm attracted to man and my partner never hurt me physically before and neither I never did it to him. Even if you are married hurting you partner physically will result to bad term relationship so it would be better to throw and break things instead of hurting each others. Hurting is just a way to release your anger but you can do it the other way just like I said you can throw and broke all your appliances to release your anger but never hurt your partner physically.
@barath007 (42)
• India
18 Aug 10
Why not? many times yaar! I don't remember the exact numbernumber. But thats for fun only and not serious.