Vengeance Is Not MINE

True. An eye for an eye is not a good thing. No matter how hurt we are we must learn to adapt and never do what other people are doing. To further agrraviate a mistake by avenging will never do good. Thank you, friend, for sharing your thoughts. Glad to see you here.:)

thanks too... at least we share the same wavelength and moral standpoint...

I'm glad to have friends with positive mindset.:)

Hi, Saphy.:) Wow! That is too upfront. I think I wasn't prepared to hear that from someone I thought is an angel here.:( Well, those who's playing you here should watch their backs, then.

I promise to behave myself next time, sweetie. Just don't let people walk over you. I really hate that.

Yes, it is true. This is the reason why I couldn't because I don't want to be like them. I have more dignity than these people. Besides, I believe in Karma. I'd rather suffer than be the person that I hate... hank you for sharing your thought, Clocks.:)

Hello, dear. It is nice to see you again.:) Yes, you are right and I do agree. i'd not want to waste my time contemplating on how to get even but rather think on how to make my life even better so that no matter how those people are putting me down, they will eventually fail and prove to be wrong. Oh,i'll be smiling at their own misery. Life is sweeter.:)

The inner voice of goodness in our hearts is much stronger than that of the evil one always trying to lure us to do more stupid things because we are a parent. I think of my kids,too, whenever things too much to bear. I just love them more than I love my own life and I will never hurt them because I have let some heartless people hurt me. Be strong and hold on there, dear. You are a great Mom.:)

Now, you gave me another good reason why I shouldn't stoop to those heartless souls. God bless you, Akiadranem.:)

Thanks eureka. It's a high praise coming from a mom like yourself. I'm sure that you'll raise you kids just as wonderfully with your wisdom.

I do agree, the heart is just so hurt it wanted to hurt its oppressor but there's that inner voice saying you don't have to do it. May be it is the voice of God telling us not to... Vengeance not taken by us but instead by God is such a sweet revenge. So, be ok with that, Warogue. God will take care of it.:)

No, dear.LOL. I won't allow my hands tainted with blood of people who hurt me. I will not kill but if I revenge it will sure hurt like h*ll! :(. But, no. I don't have the heart to do it even if I have all the rights to do it and all the guts to muster to do it... Sigh... I am keeping myself cool, dear. This what makes me keep stronger and sane.LOL. Negativity will not help me, indeed. So, I am letting things happen the normal way and try to avoid being resentful. I have so much love in my heart to give so why would I let hatred gets the best of me? :) Thank you, dear, for dropping your thoughts and scaring me a little.LOL

Oh, I did not notice I almost reach a thousand here. Right now I hit 1005. Amazing! :) Thank you, Deepak. Have a great day always. La la love.:)

Hi , Hatley.:) When I was a kid, me and my brother would often pick a fight. And I just hate it when I couldn't get even with him.:( Good thing, those were just petty quarrels. Right now, I become more tolerant of the abusive people around me.Not because I am a coward to defend myself but because they are not my priority but I'm telling myself that their time will come and I will show no mercy.i know it is bad but it is not good to be always kind, either...

LOL. Ybong, I am NOT that type of a woman or person.:) If I am my husband and I have separate live now and I'll be happier to have a stress free life. But, you see I preferred to stay in pained situation even if I have the chance to get even or just to pinch my husband (or whoever that person) a little.Besides, if I will let my fury gets the best of me, I'll forever ruin the family that I care for so much. I don't want that to happen, do I? :) Heck, I'm not an angel nor a saint, though. But, I'll do my best to suppress my tail and horns to show up. For the meantime, I'll just keep my halo up above my head.:) Thank you for dropping by and sharing your thoughts. Have a great day ahead, dear.:)

If ever it'll be this very person I love to hate so much.. Of course, dear. As long as I am sane.. Thank you for reminding me.:)

maybe you're saying this for now or your really good at keeping you tail and horns from showing up. . But living life as you described it may not be good for you in the long run but then again we each have our own cross to bear. Just make sure that you keep your temper in check as i'm sure you're a good candidate of the quotation I've mentioned. and keep an eye on that halo of yours, you may wake up one day finding out that you've shoved it around somebody's neck. Just kidding, of course. Cheers!

Hello, Candy.:) As I was reading your comment I almost choked.May be because you have reminded me of the pains. But, don't be sorry, I feel great reading this. I was busy trying to find ways how to mend the wounds from every pain and heartaches I've been through that I forgot to put things on God's hands. Yup, I should let God take care of everything for me.... Thank you for reminding me, dear.:) Have a blessful day.:)

Hi there, Bloemart. Thank you for dropping by and welcome to Mylot.:) Good things beget good things and bad things begets bad things. I don't want to suffer long term consequences because of the evil ways I have handled the situation. Karma is true and I believe in what you just said. Have a great day.:)