What to do when you feel the love is over?

If the feeling is gone then you shouldn't pretend about anything. Be honest in that case. It's the best thing to do to not hurt someone more by staying with him or her, and yet deep inside of you you are already living in a lie.. Honesty to the person whom you used to love is like doing him or her a favor. It might hurt them at first, but somehow they'll realize they should thank you instead for letting go.. Relationship without the "love" is a relationship in a big "lie"

It happened to me a few years ago, when my first bf and I hardly see each other, I was thinking a few times that if he really wants to see me, he will find a way. I also think if I like to spend the rest of my life with him and the answer is no, he's not the right one for me, I can feel it. I texted him and told him that I wanna out in a relationship. He refuse but I insisted, the next day I lend my cellphone to my sister, the guy keeps on texting on my number but sadly it was my sister who replied and my sister didn't like him for me, or anyone in that case. I just read his messages after a few weeks, he said he is drunk and he wants me back, if he really wants me back, he will visit me in my house but again he didn't so I just did the right choice I guess.

maybe try to make her fall out of love. I've done that before, I got involved with someone, and after a month of talking and dating, I realized I wasn't in love with him. I did a lot of things that I knew would turn him off, some things a lot of guys hate and dislike. In just a week, he completely lost interest in me.

If you don't love he/her, you should leave him/her. It's the best way in order that both are happy.

headache, chest pain and stomach ache were very common to me when love is over

do it by simply talking with her..BE HONEST! you will continue to hurt each and trap to a relationship wherein you are not in love anymore..it is not setting you free, it is giving her chance to be loved by a deserving man..God bless! always seek God's advice..God will never fail! :))

Ending a relationship is one of the hard things to do. Yes,love do fade and we want to get out from the present situation but the problem is,our partner is still very much in love on us. It also beaks our heart to say goodbye or say "sorry,i am falling out of love",it would be very unfair. But,it would also be unfair if we stays in a relationship and pretend we still love our partner. We can talk the matter over tears and pain,yes,it should be that way rather than hurting our partner with lies. This is very hard and not an easy situation. It needs a lot of courage to face and see our partner in pain. But this is life,just be honest. Like the song,it is better to hurt someone with the truth than with lies. have a good day always

Falling out of love,is very hurting to someone who loves you so much.In that case you need to talk.Don't keep it with your partner,you need to speak up,explained everything why it happens,I know at first it's not easy to accept but sooner,I know it will be better.Goodluck to you.

I can't relate to this kind of situation because I haven't been in this kind of scenario. But if in case this will happen to me maybe it will be difficult in my part specially to the part of the person that still loves me. The best thing to do is to be honest, the truth hurts they say but that's the best thing so that both of you will move on and try another partner. It's may sound difficult but wasting time to each other is also not a good idea.

Relationships does has its ups and downs. My suggestion would be, do give yourself some time to think about the happy moments you had together with your partner. Think of what you like about her that sparks the love at first place. If you can't think of anything positive in the relationship, then you may just put an end to it. Else, you can discuss with her the bad feelings u had on her and see what both of you can do to work around on the situation.

In fact,love of truth is very simple, when a person who does not love you leave,when not necessary in tears,he should not love,and you have to love,shoule=d not be happy.Also with the sadness you.Even if very sad,sad should also work motivation,feelings of good material to prepare the next section,this is the best approach.

I think it will be really hurtful for the other half to know that his/her partner doesn't love him/her anymore while he/she loves him/her. Better to do is,the one who fell out of love should tell his/her partner about his/her feelings,do it as soon as he/she really knew that there's no chance for his/her love to go back. So his/her partner won't fall too much for him/her and so for them to go on their own lives. Eventually,they have to move on,and hopefully they'll part their ways without hurting his/her partner so much.

Time heal wounds even the deepest hurt. you have to deal with stages of loss.. at first denial, then anger, bargaining, depression then finally acceptance. it takes time to heal but it also takes a push on our part. we heal not in our time but in Gods time. but scars always remind us of how weve been hurt in the past. let our experiences be our lessons as part of growing up so history may not repeat itself.

The best thing to do is to tell that person right to his/her face that you don't love him/her anymore. It would definitely hurt a lot but it's better than killing him/her slowly by drifting away from him/her slowly.

it really hurts when we are in a relationship and it isn't the right person for us. we find this out and usually one or both of us gets hurt. we go through life and have to find the right person. this may take many tries. it is better to find out this isn't the right person than to continue with the relationship which could lead to marriage. this would be more hurtful. take your time. you will find that special person who you love and they will truly love you. best to you.

Honesty would be the best route to go. Although it is hurtful any person should understand and respect the truth. Better to know right away then drag the situation so that the person continues to get deeper in love. I noticed you are fairly new so welcome -welcome to myLot

You have to ask yourself, why is she/he not the right one? Does his/her character fit into your profile? Are those the reasons why you lost that love? Does he/she have any good points that impresses you? I think its only proper and courtesy to sit down and discuss with your once loved one what's happening to you, since (if) he/she is still very much in love with you. I think love is not something that you have and then throw away easily like a toy you once possessed and liked.