Is it high time now for the Philippines to legalized the divorce law?
By mai200725
@mai200725 (77)
Philippines
August 18, 2010 9:15pm CST
In past administrations until the present,it has always been a non-dying issue...In other countries,divorce already forms part of their law.And as much as I value and have high regards to family being intact and also recognizing it to be an inviolable social institution under the Family Code, I also symphatized to women who are in an irreparable breakdown state of marriage and in an abusive marital relationships.On the other hand,this is also giving married couples destructive weapon against each other on solvable marital problems. How 'bout you, do you think it's high time now to legalized divorce law in the Philippines?
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7 responses
@gmnava (31)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
The question needs to be qualified. This so because, there are two kinds of divorce: one is relative and the other is absolute. What we have here is relative divorce otherwise known as legal separation but what we don't have here is absolute divorce, the one that is being enforced in the U.S. But i prefer the latter than the former for a simple reason that it's hard to stick into a relationship which is no longer working; and you know for a fact that you'll only have a sad ending. We are only given one chance to live on this planet so let's not make our life miserable. So why prolong the agony!
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I also agree with you.As long as this will being used in the proper way,why not.If we are considering about the religion we are in,Roman Catholic country,are you happy seeing all those battered wife having their agony for a long time,those responsibility who are always neglected.It's always a sad ending for them,but we always remember that life is so precious we are not here t be miserable always.
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
i think ur absolutely right on that point... and im on your side in this matter. if a person doesnt love you anymore, u dont have to force yourself on that person. we all have the right to be happy. now our democracy has somewhat turned into martial law. its a persons choice and discretion whether to stay in a marriage or not. those who are not in favor of divorce theyre just afraid that their partner will divorce them they dont feel secured at all.
@mindreader (44)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
First, divorce has no footing under our laws, ergo, not subject to being legalized. Second, marriage is an inviolable social institution, therefore it is protected by our fundamental law, hence, not subject to being legalized. Third, considering ours is a catholic dominated country, many would oppose (except of course those philandering politicians, hehe)
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
On your first point, divorce is a subject for legalization in past 1900's. Second point, marriage is inviolable ideally but status quo tells us that it isn't even with or without divorce. Third, Italy, where Vatican City stands, is legalizing divorce.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
19 Aug 10
I cannot see why the Philippines hasn't made divorce legal by now?
There are so many people in bad relationships, and thanks to not being able to get a divorce, they are stuck in those bad marriages.
I am so glad that I live in a country where divorce is legal and pretty much the norm.
@archon309 (404)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I have started similar topic about this. My answer is no. It should not be legalized now, to ever.
I agree with your point of view here. Divorce is aver destructive weapon against a family. And the family is the most basic unit of our society, hence this is a destructive weapon against a society.
Besides, had our law makers forgotten already one important part of our constitution? I meant the very first part.. the Preamble. In the first sentence it says, "We, the Filipino people, imploring the AID OF ALMIGHTY GOD,..."
Is divorce aligned to this part? I think not.
I pray that our law makers will be enlightened kill this law before it kills our society.
@oplopez81 (158)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I agree with the comments of mindreader. There is nothing to legalize. The Philippines do not accept divorce. There is no such thing as an "illegal divorce". The more appropriate would be "to have a law that will allow divorce" in the country. Also, the government recognizing the family as the basic institution of our society will always be there toinsure the sanctity of marriage. I have a friend whose annulment case has been denied by the Office of the Solicitor General (OSG). The reason: OSG wanted to save the marriage. The case is no=still under appeal. Lastly, the Catholic church is against divorce and the Philippines being a predominantly Catholic country will not tolerate this. Personally, I am not for divorce in the philippines.
@Sakura24 (175)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
If divorce will be legalized then some people will not take marriage seriously because if they are not contented with their husband or wife then they can just file for divorce. The sanctity of marriage will be broken, the oath of both couple before God is not that important anymore. Yes! in the eyes of the people the man and woman who filed a divorced are not married anymore and both can marry again if they like. But in the eyes of God, they are still married. Maybe, being a Catholic country the Philippines is not yet ready for divorce. Maybe for the abused wife, she can just file legal separation for the mean time.We should always remember that marriage is a serious decision, we should choose our partner well before entering it.
@doodpancake (3)
• United States
19 Aug 10
I think legal marriage and spiritual marriage are two different things. You should have a legal option to divorce, but the spiritual commitment should be unrelated. as in, the legal marriage is different than the one having to do with your relationship with god and its moral obligations.
@Lolors (1)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
yes. i strongly believe that it is opportune for our filipino government to legalize this policy coz it seems everyone is not able to keep their marriage forever. filipinos are just one of the beings in this world who deserve to experience divorce if they really are IN NEED of it! we all live in a modern era and it's just about time for filipinos to stretch their understanding about these matters.