for guys, do you have difficult time courting a girl you like?

Philippines
August 19, 2010 9:55am CST
i'm experiencing hard time guessing if that girl i like is giving me signs that she likes me too. there're times that i feel she wants to tell me something trough txt. though she replied to me at last for the first time, and i'm wondering if she already accepted me as a qualified guy for her. we don't talk to each other much because she's shy and undecided.
4 responses
andy77e
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
19 Aug 10
What is courting?
andy77e
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
23 Aug 10
I see. Why would you want to impress her to be your girlfriend, when you can just move in, and sleep with her? Women are far too easy to get, to bother with 'trying to impress her'.
andy77e
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
25 Aug 10
Ah I see. Here in the US, we gave that up years ago. You pretty much just sleep with whomever you can, until you get bored, and move on to the next women.
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Aug 10
aww andy ahah you talk like those playboys ahah
sweetloveforeve
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
29 Aug 10
aww sorry for it^^ anyway why dont you ask her if she wants be your gf? that way you know if she is interested or not^^ you already showed her you like her isnt? so you should ask her^^ otherwhise you will be on and on courting her and maybe get hurt if she is not interested. just say to her you like her much and wait for her reply to see what she answers^^ if she changes matter then you will have hard time convincing her ahah^^
dreemsofdark
@dreemsofdark (714)
• United States
19 Aug 10
ask her out for coffee, or a movie, or just lunch. The only way to tell if she likes you is if she'll even go on a harmless date with you. Also this gives you the perfect opportunity to get to know her more! You might find after getting to know her better you might not like her, or that she definitely doesn't really like you. Either way, atleast then you will know and this anxiety of love will be resolved.
incus99
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Like men, women are prospective too... at least its a positive response and that she's conveying the message that she's open to the possibility.. try to know her more and open yourself to her.. after all courtship means getting to know the other significant person deeper.. Good luck my friend.