what would you do if your bf had an accident and lost their p e n i s?

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Portugal
August 19, 2010 12:09pm CST
hi guys^^ what would you do if your bf had an accident and lost their p e n i s? and you boys what would you feel if your gf left you bcs of it? :(
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
31 Aug 10
Good Lord! No longer have a boyfriend because he is now my husband for 16 years but the very thought of that happening had sent chills down my very spine. I don't want to imagine it. Although we seldom do it, I still need it as a bonding moment between husband and wife. I don't want to think of the consequence for now. I'll just cross the bridge when I get there.
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• Portugal
31 Aug 10
wish it never happens to you^^ but you are right sure is important that a guy has it but if he lost it wouldnt be his fault and leaving him for that reason would just add pain to him^^ so sure leave a guy just bcs of this would be very bad^^ and for sure you wouldnt leave him bcs you are with him since 16 years already so a lot of love you guys have for each other than even a situation like this wouldnt break ^^ right?^^
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@ShenniLy (45)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
what a challenging question. My bf and I have been in a relationship for 7 years now. If that accident happens, of course I'll still love him. But i don't know whether or our relationship would last longer or not. It might be his of insecurity, or my problem of longing for s e x as part of the relationship. I can't decide honestly, maybe I can if that really happens in real life.
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• Portugal
26 Aug 10
yes that would be different but sure i dont think you would leave him bcs you are with him since 7 years already^^
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Aug 10
I would not leave him for something like that. As someone mentioned, there is surgery that can replace it. Also there are other ways to express love and satisfy your partner. I would stand by my man.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
31 Aug 10
That's just it. If you really love someone, you stick with them through thick and thin.
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
aww so cute you would stay with him^^ but i meant here that he cant replace it anymore if still you would stay with him ^^ about me i would bcs i love him and in love we must accept anything. also you are right there are other ways to show our love^^ even would be a great loss to him if he had his love by his side he would be comforted ^^ bcs he would see how much his gf loves him^^ that never left his side no matter what happened and no matter what will happen^^
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• Portugal
13 Sep 10
yes sure^^ im happy that you also think like that^^ thanks for your answer^^
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
21 Aug 10
Hi, sweetloveforeve. I would feel very sorry for him. I would not stop loving him for what has happened to him either. I will still support him so that he can get some healing from losing part of his genital area.
• Portugal
21 Aug 10
yes thats very sweet of you^^
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
There is such a thing as penile prosthetics... it will replace the lost phallus ..
• Portugal
21 Aug 10
ahah you thought in everything ahah but maybe some that couldnt make surgery i meant^^ if the girl left i guess they would feel like nothing right? bcs for guys p e n i s is so important ahah anyway wish it doesnt happen to no guy. ahah about me i wouldnt leave the guy bcs of it. would be very bad he lost his p e n i s and even lose gf too^^
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@AutumnGold (1056)
19 Aug 10
Hello Sweetloveforever. I'd still love him whether he had his male part or not but obviously the physical side would suffer unless he could have surgery to replace it or stitch it back on.
• Portugal
21 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ sweet that you be with him still^^
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
i will still care for him and i would not mind not having the chance to do the deed with him. its fine with me and i think i would still love him for what he is.. =)