Your bf is gay and you just knew that. How would you feel?

Philippines
August 19, 2010 8:34pm CST
I have a best friend who has a hunky boyfriend for 2 years. Even I was attracted to him. He's smart, gentle, down-to-earth, good-looking, but one thing I've observed he acts so mysteriously that he always go out with his gay friends secretly. How did I know? I went to a comedy bar with my workmates and I saw him with 2 guys and 3 gays. At first, I thought he's only one of those guys; but later on I found out he talks and laughs like a gay unlike the usual way of his talking! I told my best friend about it on the next day. I slowly told her what I saw, crossing fingers that she won't be hysterical. On my surprise, she smiled and nodded her head. She said, "I already knew that. He just admitted that to me." I had mixed feelings that time. I understand why she hid that fact to me; but what I don't understand is why does she still keep on loving him? What if this happens to you? Would you the same thing as my best friend did? And by the way, they're not together now. They broke up a year after she knew he's gay.
2 responses
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
that was one tough situation to be into. I'm glad they are not together now because it will be one relationship that is hard to maintain. How can you have a peace of mind knowing that your bf might be somewhere flirting with other men? It is hard to have a bf who cheats with women, but to have a bf who does it with men is another ill-fated story...
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
20 Aug 10
I guess I would feel insulted and betrayed. He could've been honest with me from the start. I would also feel hurt knowing the man I love/like isn't a man at all.