do you get annoyed when your partner keeps on kissing and hugging you?
By deve_annrn
@deve_annrn (1856)
Philippines
August 19, 2010 11:10pm CST
Hi there!!! I was just wondering if too much showering of affections could make your partners annoyed? It haven't observe any signs of annoyance yet but i can't help but wonder if it can irritate my boyfriend.., i am a very affectionate person..like a child that hugs her daddy every chance she gets.., kissed his cheek and stuff..., for men out there.., what do you think about too much affection? should i limit such gestures?? =)
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18 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
i dont know ^^ i just know that i usually care much when i like a guy but they always act careless to me. is like im the only one caring so much. sometimes i feel if i should care less so they would give me more attention? i guess not^^ anyway i think that have someone that really cares for us and kiss us and hug us and says sweet things and show love we are too lucky to have them^^ i wish i had a bf that was so sweety to me like that^^ but i have no bf for now :(
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Hi there.. I guess it's natural for girls to be showy with how we feel.., and it's seldom to find guys who are as affectionate..=) I hope you'll find one in the near future..=)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
yep! i think so too.., it's best to shower each other with affection.. being expressive with how we feel is a lot better than being a passive lover..right?=)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
yeah.. i got your point and i was stricken with what you said.., you're definitely right.., If i gave too much.., there would be nothing left for him to yearn for more right? =)
@mindreader (44)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
Just be yourself. You know your limitations as well as your partners. Personally, I'd rather have a girlfriend like you.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
it just came to my thoughts..without any specific reason.., i guess i'm over imagining things..=)
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
20 Aug 10
Not really, it just means that he really loves me. It's not a bad thing for me.
@bigplay (212)
• United States
20 Aug 10
You shouldn't limit their affection, you should be happy to receive it. Personally i would love to have a mate like that, because i'm affectionate and that would make me happy. But i understand how you feel, it can be too much sometimes. I would be afraid if my mate didn't hug and kiss me, that's showing how much he or she loves you.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
20 Aug 10
It would be better if u increase your affection rate..
See, Men always wants more..
nobody gets annoyed by getting affection from his beloved true love..
Increase your affection rate and u will see that he will be more impressed and might give u present weekly!!!
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
thank you.. i will definitely do that.., every time i get so affectionate with him.., he would even tell me..,i;m like a baby always hugging him..and he would tease me about it.., =)
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@eurekafemme (5876)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I think it is very annoying even feels gross when that one who is kissing and hugging you is not really the love of your life.Like you two are into relationship because of convenience.
But, if it is the one you love, then, I think both man and woman doesn't mind at all. as a matter of fact, men are so much like little boys that they want to be treated like little boys always. However, as an adult do not overdo it especially in the public places because here in our country you will get brows to irk on you. Do it when you are in France. :)
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
How i wish i could be your boyfriend!..lol.. being affectionate with the things you've been doing would - in my opinion - not be irritating in any sense whatsoever, but rather i would be overwhelmed with such affection. Your BF is a lucky man...
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
haha.., really!! so you love affectionate ladies then.. i don't know but it comes so naturally with me.., and sometimes i feel like is this way too much because if it is.., i will have to minimize my affection..haha.. go find an affectionate woman then..i'm sure there are a lot of my kind out there.. best of luck!! =)
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
It's ok as long as you are in a private place, but not in public as other's may irritate on you. I guess, most guys love when their gf are affectionate and I am down when it comes to that.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
oh i am affectionate but i don't do it with other people around.., i don't to appear so touchy and clingy..haha,.. just plain affection in a proper place of course..=)
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
oh no, not really. I am a woman but hope you don't mind if i comment. For me it sometimes depend on the mood and the place. I think it's improper if he would do it when we are on a public bus or transportation. For us ladies, of course we must tell them the limitations when in public places and when in a really bad mood it would really be so annoying.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
hmm..yeah i get what you mean.. of course i don't mind if you comment.., it counts a lot when someone comments on issues that is bothering me.. thank you..
@chinoxads (255)
• United States
25 Aug 10
For me i like that, because in one way this mean that she is a lovely person, and she is expressing her feelings, it make me feel happy and it motivates me to return it to her. i don't seem that is a wrong, just that there can be moments or places where she can't do it, and she need to know it because is a common sense thing.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
20 Aug 10
I would never be annoyed with my partner kissing and hugging me. When these things stop, that is when i would be annoyed. Showing affection shows that we care and love someone. That is something that shouldn't annoy us, but make us happy.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I don't mind at all. She can kiss me anytime, anywhere, any part of my body. Lol