i will not trust a person ,if he/she has cheated me?

There is that one thing I will not tolerate in a relationship with a significant other and that is infidelity. If a spouse cheats on me, that's pretty much it. Zero tolerance. Nor do I promote infidelity. I have found by simply observing that once someone cheats, the door is left wide open to do it again.

yes it is difficult to belive in that person ,but we should give him/her a chance ,thx for sharing.

It would be hard to trust someone whom we had trusted and loved so much and at the end finding he/she had cheated on us. Second chance is not a matter,we can still give them another chance,but,trust is not the same as it was before. It really hurts to know that when we stays faithful,our loved ones afford to cheat us. happy weekend

I am also like that. I am pragmatic person. So I know that there is a level beyond which 99 percent of people would compromise. So the person who has cheated me just had some circumstances which were bad, or his bar of honesty was low. Even after knowing this, I wouldnt be able to bring myself to be forgiving. :(

I am with you Akn 1961. I will not trust that person ever again, until he prove that he is worth my trust ever again. I just can't do it, it already carved in my heart, he/she is not trustworthy. I just won't want to wounded by the same person again. I was cheated by my friend before, and he just taking my hard working money away.

I think we have the same view, if someone cheated on me then, I had difficulty trusting him again. For me, Relationship is like a glass, once you broke it, you can mend it but you can't never put it the way it used to be. I can forgive that person but I will have difficulty trusting him again. I just want someone who will love me faithfully no matter who he is. I am not asking him to be very rich and handsome as long as he loves me and accepts me for what I am. I don't like cheating in a relationship because I believe in Karma. If you will leave someone for another person then maybe that another person will also leave you someday. How can he be sure that you won't also leave him for another new one.So let's just be contented and appreciate whatever we had for God gave him to us for a reason.

Well I think that much of this comes with time and wisdom. I do see there are so many that have cheated and cheated all the time. Reaching an out of control place. But I truly believe that there are a few out there that do not fall into that once a cheater always a cheater catagory. I think that a major part that needs to be taken into consideration, is where is the person in their life and what lead up to this.

I guess for you not to be hurt just don't expect anything back for you okay? Because I understand the fact that I do this and that but what they do to me is not the same the way I treated them. People have their own views regarding promises and trust. Others take it seriously, others don't. It's really rare of having someone who is trustworthy. Don't forget to trust 100% of yourself and your self only. I don't want to be negative but people nowadays, most of them are bad. Well that is according to my experience. Your belief is still your belief. Have a good day ahead. If you have suspicions on the person who lose your trust or who are about to lose your trust, just keep it in yourself to avoid argue and misunderstanding. You can self investigate and if you are sure you know what to do. There are some people you should be rough or harsh on. They do not deserve someone like you to be a friend/lover. Just don't forget to tell him/her you true feelings, hard or not.