Deceitful friends and other people

If I find out a person is deceitful I try not to have anything to do with them. Sometimes however, it is out of your control. If forced to associate with someone that I think may be lying, I try not to take whatever they say too seriously. The only problem with that is they may be telling the truth and you are so used to them lying that you don't belive them. Kind of like that boy in the fairy tail about "the boy who cried wolf".

I start keeping all of my business strictly to myself. I find reasons not to see them nearly so often. I sort of sneak out of their life, so that there is not a conflict, or a reason for them to start gossip about me.

I Wouldnt be freinds any more. usually when meeting a erson I get feelings right off they arent to be a friend at all so I dont take them on as friends

If you surround yourself with such people, sooner or later end up hurt you or benefit from them no matter the consequences. Sometimes you can not and you have to learn to live with such people, for example in a job, but in your life you have to walk away from such people, there has to get to know your friends and colleagues, without it is too late, but sometimes we get surprises incredible person or friend you least expect it and ended badly, and we fought to remove it from our lives.

I have encountered people of those kinds on several occasions. You see, that is the reason why I became a choosy one when it comes to picking friends. I used to enjoy having lots of friends but when I realized that some of them do not deserve my sincere friendship at all, I just subtly started avoiding them. Now, though I am left with just a few good friends, I am more happy and relaxed.

I'll stay away from that deceitful person . And if it happens to be a real close friend , I'll end the friendship. There is no way I'm going to trust that person again.

Well, I currently work with one that I would definately put in this category and it is sickening, and sometimes I would really Love to tell her what I think of her. The thing that bothers me about her is she one minute is claiming to be a Good little christian girl, in choir, etc. but next minute she is talking about what she was smoking or drinking the night before, and claiming about riding the Bus at child price and she is in her 30s. Then wonders why a Bus driver tries to kick her off. She also is one who will go to a Hospital ER claiming no insurance, place to live, etc. to get Charity care instead of taking responsibility since we have Insurance thru work and then never stopping to think about it is hurting her anyways in the pocketbook anyways. She is right now homeless, living with family as she was evicted and trying to fight it saying it was their fault. She also always tries to borrow money from someone and never tries to pay back. Personally I wish she would grow up and smell the Coffee and realize she is not a child to be handed everything too and is making a Bad name for herself, and her race.

Personally, I choose to ignore them. If they are going to lie to me, and not tell me the truth, or if they are going to try and con me into doing things that I don't want to do, then they really aren't worth talking to or being friends with.

if u r talking about online friends...then i never appear online to such friends and if they r real world friends i dont meet them again....i am very careful these days about talking to someone specially online as i met many different kind of people having various types of intention...good and bad...

That is simple. I stop chatting with them. Well, I do have one exception. One friend of mine is quite elderly and I think her mind is slipping because I have caught her in several lies of late. But she has always been a generous hardworking person, and because of my conviction that she means well, I choose to overlook this fault.

I will carry on talking to them.. haha =D BEcause they tend to expose themselves after some time.. When that happens, it's either they try to cover up, or they will start to treat u as a real friend, for we din expose them to others.. haha =D That's what happened to me, and my deceitful friend, and it all happened so naturally after that very incident.. hehe

I know what you mean, I have a person in my family that is like that. I try not to talk to her that much or for too long, because she gets nosey and tries to ask questions about my family, like my siblings and stuff, she just wants to hear something that she can gossip about to other people. She's always been that way, she likes to cause trouble between people, so I try to stay away from her.

stay away from them as much as possible that would be my reaction. however in life did we not have a mandate from God to make disciples of all nation? This one is tough you have to pray for them, be kind to them and if that is not enough love them! Being a Christian is a full time tough job no wonder why we fail our tests all the time. jesus said who needs the doctor the sick or the well? ughh so there you go there is the answer but then it is just so tough.

I just stay away from them, why give them fuel to feed the fire. I try not to be rude to anyone. I have heard or guess what some people can say, especially when I hear them talk about other people and I know it's a lie.

We humans can be so judgemental can't we? There is always a reason why people are like this and everyone needs love and understanding. Some need other things like compassion and forgiveness too. Maybe that person has come into our lives to teach US a lesson. We should be kindly pointing out the persons shortcomings or failings so they have a chance of redeeming themselves. Not many of us are big enough to do that I guess. What does that make us then? Just as bad I reckon.

Hello my friend jugsjugs Ji, I think, it may take whole life to find a true friend with whom one can rely. i have yet to find such person. Everyone is attatched with me as they tink I will be more useful to them. May God bless You and have a great time.

do you have proof that this person is decieptfull,if so,confront them and ask why they did it,you might be able to sort it out,otherwise just be very carefull what information you share with them in the future

I dont also like those kind of persons. You know we should be very careful with people we know. Even those in our workplaces, we could not tell who really are real and who are not. There are those who seem true in front of you only to find out that they are talking behind your back. There are those who are too envious that they want to ruin you. That is why we have to be selective sometimes when it comes to having friends.

Hi jugsjugs!. I think I will start taking a distance and be careful with what I share with them. I had friend who was making friend with me for many years I was there for her when bad times comes but he think about me in bads ways like he think I was jealous to her (what to jealous for, I will never want to be his place even if they pay me one million dollar) and others nasty word who made realize she never really understand me a little bit. Its make in wake up call and my eye were open to something I denied to look, why so many people hate her even her sibling.

They all exists anywhere in this world and it is for us to be aware and be careful in dealing with them. As for my part, once I knew them, I'll avoid them and voila! They're gone in my life.