Why is it so hard to find the right guy?
By hotpink89
@hotpink89 (134)
United States
August 20, 2010 8:16am CST
okay so I've been single for the past 6 months. i am pretty, smart, brave and very social and caring with others. yet at the same time i have men always approaching me but not the right ones! and it's sad because people always judge me because i am pretty and always Say WHY ARE YOU SINGLE?
why is it so hard for me to find or at least have a good man in my life.
i am not trying to force my self or anything, it will happen when I'm not expecting it i know but WHEN :((
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4 responses
@hotpink89 (134)
• United States
21 Aug 10
that was just soo cute of you to say.
but i cant help it that i dont like being alone :((
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
Hi friend!
The thing is, how can you tell if a guy whom you meet are the right or wrong guy for you? I am just wondering because it is actually vague to me. Besides that, I often hear girls saying, "he is not the right guy" when in fact you just meet or probably just have a few conversation. What I am pointing out is that, when can we really tell that he is the right guy without committing yourself to the person? Or taking the risk to know that he is not the right guy for you?
Isn't it a fact that you are putting some standards unconsciously that is why you can directly say that those guys aren't right? You see my friend, stop being idealistic because reality is, no one is truly be right for you when what you are looking for is the one who is ideal.
More so, as you mentioned, you are pretty, but single. It only means that your mind have set a standard that the right guy is your ideal guy. Do not fear to explore and take risks. The right guy comes without chasing it.
@hotpink89 (134)
• United States
21 Aug 10
exactly its like okay i met someone then give them a chance and then what happens i have to wait till something happens. or just taking that risk which i dont like at all.
but your right i do have a fear now to start taking risks, i just stoped talking to this guy who was so nice because i was scared to open up :(((
@lonmar71 (89)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
there's nothing wrong being single. just wait for the right time it will come when you least expect it. sometimes man are intimidated with your presence. just be yourself. enjoy being single and celebrate it.
@mikaela8132000 (144)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
maybe try to wait cause when the time come im sure you can find you're right men
right now just chill and have fun i been like that before. until i found the right guy for me without me thinking his the one
