Is Love sweeter for the second time around?

Philippines
August 20, 2010 11:55am CST
some relationship last in a short time, but then giving a second chance for the relationship is good enough to prove that its forever? Do you believe in 'that love is better for the second time?'
7 responses
@maylaine (441)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
thats what some people say. but for me i dont think so, coz i lost some trust coz once your partner fool you he will do it again.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
20 Aug 10
You will find that love again, sweetie. Don't give up and don't let one ruin that which can make you happy. I got through it, you can too, okay. TATA.
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
maylaine, yeah.. a phobia of love :(
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
saphrina, i wish everyone would find the one that will make them happy.. :)
@goldfngz (99)
• United States
22 Aug 10
It depends on how your relationship ended the first time. If you decided to just "take a break" from each other because you needed to evaluate the relationship, it could be sweeter the second time. If you broke up because someone lied or cheated it will be hard to completely trust them again, and second time around is not likely because you will always be looking over your shoulder. It's hard to love when there's no trust.
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
i agree with you goldfngz
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
Never been into that situation, so I cannot answer the question right now. I still do not know the feeling of second time around relationships. Although, I knew some relationships that lasted or have ended up with their exes. Maybe I can get back on this discussion when I finally experience that sweet feeling of getting back together again.
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
i'm excited to read your comment if that happen. *smile*
@akopoaysi (739)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
yes and no. when me and my exbf broke up the first time. after some time we get back together and yes we were more considerate, sweeter to each other. but we didnt end up together. we broke up and never get back again and it was much worse than before. :(
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
20 Aug 10
I know you can love the second time around in a relationship. I was married before and thought I would never fall in love again. I met my husband now 17 years ago. I knew when I met him that I could fall in love with him. We've been together for so long that we have even had a second time around love in our own relationship. Keep faith.
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
that was really nice. i think if you really love the person know matter how hard you've been, the love will last forever. :)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
I believe that Love is sweeter the second time around.., but I don't think it's enough proof that if you give each other a second chance.., it will be for forever on that time around.., I t still depends if you'll make the relationship work better and avoid all the issues that you used to have so that history will not repeat itself..right?
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
20 Aug 10
Love is a first time affair, it goes stale the first time, i can assure you the next time you stray back to it the secondly time, it will have completely gotten rotten!