my wife is the greatest, but would wife mind if
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
United States
August 21, 2010 7:25am CST
i can say i do have a great wife.. she always been there through lot of my bad times, stayed when most when i have ran.
but i tell people. i have two best friends who are females. and my wife dont mind at all. i talked to one like every day. i give both hugs and kisses in front of my wife of course, and we tell each other we love each other, like brother and sisters.
they get along great with my wife, one and my wife gave each other nick names. and i know not to upset my wife in front of them then i am out number. one even calls my dad, dad as well. ive known both from high school one we grew up together
would your wife mind if you guys had a best female friend?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
21 Aug 10
I am the wife, so I'll have to answer this from my own perspective. Yes I would mind, but not because I don't trust my husband, I do trust him, however I don't trust other women. Some are real sl*ts now, I know a lot more aren't, but even so I hate confrontation as is...
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
21 Aug 10
i can say these two friends never give my wife any reason not to trust them. when they come over she is the first to get hugs from them. both have b/f. and we three are like it would never go there because we are brother and sisters.
now thier b/f had gotten jealous over me, told them both no need to. i am one of those kind of men, who i feel i am a real man. if i am close to a female like this, and i would never do anything like that to hurt my relationship with them. specail if they are like sisters. and plus i love my wife too much to hurt her.
my wife knows and trust me. but yeah i can feel you.. i do trust my wife but not many guys.. but you should have enough trust in your husband if a female came to him he would turn them down,
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
10 Sep 10
I read up on the page and i have to say that i think nearly the same as CowGirl thinks. 
I also don't trust other women, i got only one good friend, who is girl, she is great person and she read my mind, as i read her.
My boyfriend was trying to keep in touch with one of his loves. I was so sad, because of that. It was like he can't move on in his life, without her. I felt really less important than her, even if they were talked very rarely. It was because of their memories, all the good moments they have shared together. That girl is still trying to talk to him. We live together from 4 months in new place and before that we were in his parents house. I am really sad, because we got sore feelings here - mine, and if she was really a good friend, she would stay him to continue his life without her. But no, she is writing him in facebook, they were friends in one other website, where he deleted his account, because only for one month she was viewing his profile around 200 times. How can i trust someone, if she is trying to do the same thing, even if she knows that all that is painful and we got fights because of her. That's not friendly, it's something else. I'm trying to explain that to him, but he doesn't want to hear me. Never mind, he stopped talking with her. I'm not totally sure, but 99% and i hope he really did it.
If some of my friends can't accept him, i'll do my best to make them friends. If they can't be friends, i'll cut the friend, not the one, who support me in my bad moments and who make me happy. If i got a friend, who is doing things, which make my boyfriend sad or unsure i'll stop that connection with the friend. Everyone has to know his priorities. The man i live with, is on my first place.
But i'm happy that i can read that story, for your friends and wife. It's great that your wife likes your friends, as they likes her. 
I also don't trust other women, i got only one good friend, who is girl, she is great person and she read my mind, as i read her.
My boyfriend was trying to keep in touch with one of his loves. I was so sad, because of that. It was like he can't move on in his life, without her. I felt really less important than her, even if they were talked very rarely. It was because of their memories, all the good moments they have shared together. That girl is still trying to talk to him. We live together from 4 months in new place and before that we were in his parents house. I am really sad, because we got sore feelings here - mine, and if she was really a good friend, she would stay him to continue his life without her. But no, she is writing him in facebook, they were friends in one other website, where he deleted his account, because only for one month she was viewing his profile around 200 times. How can i trust someone, if she is trying to do the same thing, even if she knows that all that is painful and we got fights because of her. That's not friendly, it's something else. I'm trying to explain that to him, but he doesn't want to hear me. Never mind, he stopped talking with her. I'm not totally sure, but 99% and i hope he really did it.
If some of my friends can't accept him, i'll do my best to make them friends. If they can't be friends, i'll cut the friend, not the one, who support me in my bad moments and who make me happy. If i got a friend, who is doing things, which make my boyfriend sad or unsure i'll stop that connection with the friend. Everyone has to know his priorities. The man i live with, is on my first place.
But i'm happy that i can read that story, for your friends and wife. It's great that your wife likes your friends, as they likes her. 
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
dear syankee,
id say you are very lucky to have a very understanding wife. it is ok to have a female best friend but you should always make sure that you show your wife that she has the "edge".. that they are not "equally" important to you.
being a female, i can relate to your wife and i know there are times when she gets jealous. 
no, she will not say it of course, that is to preserve the peace around the three of you.
do tell your wife one serious "moment" (like conversations in the bedroom).. that she is great (plus other complements you can say about her).
i know it would matter a lot to her being told how important she is to you.
have a nice day.
ann
no, she will not say it of course, that is to preserve the peace around the three of you.
do tell your wife one serious "moment" (like conversations in the bedroom).. that she is great (plus other complements you can say about her).
i know it would matter a lot to her being told how important she is to you.
have a nice day.
ann
