Hello, do you ask yourself? which you prefer to meet with any one? some one likes to meet to go to him/her. some one likes to meet to come with him/her. Why they feel so? and which you feel in your deal.
it is really hard to ask for help, isn't it... i always was in such a position before and i feel that it was probably the hardest, to admit to someone that you are lost, have no where to go and to ask for help...