is it possible to have equal feelings for 2 guys?
@sheilawittner (11)
United States
August 21, 2010 11:07pm CST
for the last 3 years i have been dealing with two guys, not at the same time, and i am not talking about anything freaky like a threesome or nothing like that, dont get me wrong on this. im just talking about i cant make up my mind which one i want to be with b/c they both want to be with me. and i really dont want to leave neither alone. i have tried to be with that 1 and all i could think about was 2. and then i tried to be with 2 and all i could think about was 1. what should i do? just leave them both alone, or what? i dont want to do that either
1 response
@kurumi (85)
• Singapore
22 Aug 10
You are what is being called a two timer. You are also selfish. Don't hurt the feeling of these 2 guys any more. Either you choose one you can live with as a future partner , or you leave them both alone. I can tell you, in the end, if you are following the marriage route, you still have to choose only one.
@sheilawittner (11)
• United States
22 Aug 10
i understand what ur saying but this has nothing to do with being selfish. my question was is it possible to have feelings for 2 ppl equally. which is actually a hard situation to be in. its not that i want to be with both of them & cheat on the other. can i get a definition of a two timer please? because i dont agree with that selfish thing that u said
