me and my friend love the same girl
By dccell
@dccell (337)
Indonesia
August 22, 2010 6:39am CST
Dear my friend please advise me on this , i really need help ... i know girl is not only one in this word and i know to love the same girl as your close friend do is not good but my friend i really love the girl i wish my friend leave that girl for me. is there any way that i can tell my friend to leave that girl for me? ( i know the girl have a better attention to me rather then my friend.
7 responses
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
22 Aug 10
Wow that's a really difficult situation for you i guess. That same happened to me a couple of years ago and we let the girl choose and she chose my friend so it was quite difficult for me at first to be nice to both of them and not get too angry or jealous myself. But later i could adjust myself well because i knew that my lover and my best friend are happy with each other and i shouldn't ruin it...
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 10
yes Brother thank for your response, what really hurt me is the live next to my door so i met her every day while it seem to me that my friend really love that girl . i never tell her or my friend about this feeling, or should i move to another place ?
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@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
22 Aug 10
Well you should tell your friends about your problem because i am assuming that you 2 are very close he would understand you. But if he doesn't then try to win the girl but keep your friend a little distance while doing so and also be friendly with him too. WHen time comes then if that girl likes you she would take you then...
@pinksplotch (268)
• Quezon City, Philippines
24 Aug 10
hi
this is my advice: don't sacrifice your good friendship. don't do anything that will ruin your friendship with your close pal.. both of you should let the girl choose between the two of you really. if her choice doesn't favor you, then you just have to accept and be happy for them. after all, it's true that if you really love someone you have to let her go (let her be happy). true love is all about sacrifice my friend. good luck on this one.
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 10
Thank you pinkslothch i know that i should keep the friendship even more tighter, i got your advise and i think it`s also good to follow, let me think about this again but if i let the girl choice she might not chooseing me, and i will lose her... in other i reallly want her to be part of mine.
@blindmoongoddess (426)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Oh, that's a very difficult situation! It seems that your friend has a relationship with the girl. In that case, you have to respect that. You would be betraying your friend by trying to win his girlfriend's heart. If your friend really loves his girlfriend, he would never think of leaving her.
I think the best thing you can do for now is just hope for the best for yourself. By the way, does the girl know how you feel about her? It's really up to the girl who she wants to be with. She has the say; it's her choice. If you really, really love her, you would want her to be happy with or without you.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
my suggestion is you and your friends must compete with a fair, show your express to her...dont force a woman , she must choose you, your friends or didnt choose anyone from you, and you and your friends must respect anything thats choice from that girl.
@LingXX0103 (151)
• China
24 Aug 10
You should deal with this situation carefully.
Because perhaps you will lose your friend.
If this girl choose you,I doubt that you can keep good relationship with your friend.
In fact,its a descision for you.Your friend or this girl.
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
24 Aug 10
Thanks For your Nice responce Dearest Lingxx0103 , i know the situation is facing toward me, i`am going to think again for what should i do more , for now there is only one solution in my mind choose between them . but like what you`ve said i should be ready to lose and from another.
@dellabanedz (123)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
You better tell you friend about how you feel for that girl so you can talk about it because friend understand the most. But also ask the girl if she likes you or not because maybe she like your friend and like you as a friend. Confrontation is the best thing I can advice to you.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Well if you feel yours is true love, express to the girl..if she likes you, she will accept yours.
