Pissed off with a fling
By mimeux
@mimeux (62)
Philippines
August 22, 2010 10:18am CST
Hello. I just want to share this, well, I have a mutual friend, not really a boyfriend, I don't think that were on it because we don't date and we seldom see each other. Every time I am online at facebook he always brag me to do something which I am not comfortable with. Show at the web cam! I ignored him for several times and now I am pissed off. I went offline so that he will not able to chat to me. And what's annoying about it is he leave a message to my wall.
I deleted it. I want him to punch him because of this. Do I look like a show girl to her? What the hell. I am so sorry for my rudeness but I think he is mad! Ugggh..
He don't respect me. I really thought that we went something mutual because he said that he has feelings for me. Now I am really convinced that he only say that to get me laid. Lame. What title can he get? I don't care if he is an engineer.
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8 responses
@casabuena (64)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
you really do not have to care about him... hehe. Just go back to the word you used, "fling" meaning fast and violent... so if it is fast, it wont really last, and if it violent or rude... would you want to keep it?
@blackburn234 (1)
• United States
22 Aug 10
Anyone willing to make you uncomfortable for their on gain is selfish and does not care about you.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
23 Aug 10
mimeux,
I am wondering what you actually mean when you call him a mutual friend in your post here. Yet at the same time, you are having issues with him and such a great animosity.
And your title....a fling? With who? You?
I am sorry but this seems very confusing.
I suggest you look at the whole issue with a clearer perspective and see if there's really any relationship between the both of you. Your post just reek that you are one some kind of "one way traffic" relationship.
If it is just some social networking relationship, I am sure you can resolve it with some customization with your account's privacy settings.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
22 Aug 10
Take it easy and find him one day and tell him your piece of mind. It does not serve any useful purpose for you to be in state of flight because of a friend who is not even mutual after all.
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
nice move gurl huh! love it.. ignore him and dont ever talk to him. he must respect you. and i do have the same experienced. so bye bye to him. no more words.i ignored him,so he cannot bug me anymore coz he cannot access or send me anything.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Good work girl.
Yes,i also had same experience like that,and even almost deactivate my facebook account becoz of this damn*ed filthy feeling gorgeous guy 
.
But why the h*ll to be affected with his craziness,i never even deleted him on my lists but i keep posting pictures with my friends having fun (and so he get pissed off for knowing that i am never been affected)
Hahaha,he got the dose of his own medicine.
That's one good lesson to be learn dear.
But worth the try,just be careful and be smart too.
Have a good day always
Yes,i also had same experience like that,and even almost deactivate my facebook account becoz of this damn*ed filthy feeling gorgeous guy .
But why the h*ll to be affected with his craziness,i never even deleted him on my lists but i keep posting pictures with my friends having fun (and so he get pissed off for knowing that i am never been affected)
Hahaha,he got the dose of his own medicine.
That's one good lesson to be learn dear.
But worth the try,just be careful and be smart too.
Have a good day always @saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
22 Aug 10
Sweetie, i can give you some very nice words to post on his wall.
He probably won't know the meaning of it, though.
But those who will seE it, will have a good laugh.
How far can i take this for you?
I hate men like that.
I wish i could get my hands on him.
Just ignore him and if that doesn't help, let me know.
Then we can start to play.
I just hope he can keep up.
Freaking idiot.
TATA.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
22 Aug 10
Well, sounds like he is a jerk then. What you can do just tell him leave you alone, and don't ever do such thing to you. If he still want to be friend, he should watch his behavior and his language. Then you decide whether he is still worth your friendship or not.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Aug 10
You know you can just block him in total on facebook and be done with it for good. It is a good thing that you find out about his type of personality before he does something you will really be upset about later.
Good luck and maybe blocking him would not be such a bad idea, you can always remove the block once he understands that you need to be respected.
