my mutual friend
By aidagrace
@aidagrace (24)
Philippines
August 22, 2010 11:13am CST
hello... i share this because i want some opinion... me in my side i have a boyfriend, i have a friend he has a girlfriend to but it was in japan now, working and he think we are lovers but deep inside i have no feelings for him, for me he is just a friend of mine but for him i am her girlfriend. What shall i do? i always said to him we are just friends... but for him is not...
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3 responses
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Hello grace
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What do you think made him think of that? did you in anyway gave an indirect motivation for him to like you?? or something that he needs to fill since he's lone some with his girl friend. I think for me, what he wanted was a Fling lust relationship and not being having another girl friend. i think he's old enough to realize that it's cheating. if he continues that way, i suggest you stay away from him until he comes into his senses.
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What do you think made him think of that? did you in anyway gave an indirect motivation for him to like you?? or something that he needs to fill since he's lone some with his girl friend. I think for me, what he wanted was a Fling lust relationship and not being having another girl friend. i think he's old enough to realize that it's cheating. if he continues that way, i suggest you stay away from him until he comes into his senses.@aidagrace (24)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
hello i did not do some moves to think him that i like him lol.... ahm he is already 33 and her girlfriend is 29 they have still there communication... i think i got what u think hehehhe.....
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Tell him straight away that you don't love him mutually. Clearly tell him that you are just friends and make a video recording of that one that you are telling him those words. You should not be in an awkward situation because the two of you have relationships with other people so if things go wrong, you can just show them the proof that you are only friends. And you were the one who clearly stated all that. You should not ruin your friendship with him though just because of him behaving this way.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
22 Aug 10
Tell him the truth and saev him the kind of illusion that he is going through, you may hurt him more than you ever imagined when the truth surfaces later.
