Would swallow your pride for your friendship?
By len1415
@len1415 (195)
Philippines
August 22, 2010 9:08pm CST
Would you say sorry to your friend even if it's not your fault? Would you humble yourself and swallow your pride just to save your friendship?...Well, if our friendship is deeper than the ocean, I would...But we have to talk about it first, discuss the issue then try to work it out. If she can't be brave enough to accept her mistake and blame me instead, I would just quit talking, let it go and forget about it...That's how important my friend is to me...
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5 responses
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
I would surely talk to my friend about the issues about our friendship. And I would tell her/him that our friendship is very precious to me. If he/she wouldn't talk to me and would still ignore me. Then I'll respect whatever his/her decisions are. But I would still sorry even if it's not my fault. I will humble myself who knows we can be friends again.
@beautifulpages (70)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
It really happens. We tend to accept and say sorry for something that is not our fault, all for the sake of friendship, for the sake of love. It is important that no matter how hard we may try to be righteous, there are times that we have to accept other people's fault as our own most especially the ones close to our hearts.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
I think I can put my defenses off and swallow my pride for my best friend.., not just to any other friend or new acquaintances.., Even if I'm not at fault.., I'm willing to say sorry for any misunderstanding it may have caused and I will not allow it to ruin our friendship in any way., Saying sorry doesn't necessarily comes from who is at fault.., but from someone who understands..=)
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
Pride has always been the root cause of failed friendships and relationships.
I admit that sometimes I let my pride get the better of me and end up wishing I could have done it differently. But it's too late, the damage is too deep already.
So now I lower my pride a bit. It is hard, but it is possible.