talent returns.......

India
August 23, 2010 10:17am CST
I am going discuss about my friends. I am studying Electronics and Communication Engineering(ECE) 3rd year. A common doubt daily arises in my mind when i saw my friends in my classroom. ECE is a good course and demanded course in engineering than all. In my classroom we are 62members. In that 50members got 90above percentage in their indermediate life. They all are got 500above marks(out of 600) in their 10th class. This indicates their standard of education and their talent. But now they all are not perform in that level. Especially boys, they are habutured to enjoy the college days only. Ofcourse we have enjoy. While studying also it is possible. How can we motivate them? How can i encourage them? How they again repeat their history? Studies are important to their career. If they get good percentage in Engineering they have good career. They also know this, but practically they cann't put in the way of succes........
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 Aug 10
Ramesh! This happens when students give their hearts out in preparing for their plus two examinations, burn midnight oil and slog their lives out in their entrance examination and finally heaving a sigh of relief enter the prestigious universities to pursue their professional course. [Are entrance exams still there? Or is it only the marks that count?] Once they enter the engineering college, they get lulled into a false sense of complacency ; their mission seems to have been accomplished; and it is here that you know the men from the boys. At this stage, motivation should come from within. You cannot be telling them all this. It is their career and their future. Given the competitive scenario, it is for them to keep up the standards of performance. What can you do about it? Secondly, performing at school level , especially getting marks in our State board system of education is not the true test of a student. The effort required in school is miniscule compared to what is required now and this is where the others are making a mistake. Students underestimate the requirements, have fun and then cry at the end of it all , shifting the blame on to all quarters. What is the use? However, you need not worry too much because ultimately survival will make them all choose some career path. We have to work very hard to achieve a successful career. This has to come from within and cannot be taught by fellow classmates. If they were interested in maintaining their record, they would have done it themselves without any prompting from, outside ;isn't it? You go ahead and concentrate on your studies, do extra projects that would enhance your C.V and this will get employers queuing up for you in your campus interview. If you feel like pursuing further studies also, your grades would speak in your favour. Don't worry too much. They will choose some other career that may not require great performance in the course.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
24 Aug 10
It is terrible.What you have written about your friend is very distressing. This is what happens when good boys fall into bad company. It requires enormous strength of character and support and hidden discipline from home if these things are not to happen.If he is a close friend, then you try your maximum to convince him, highlight how bad his parent s would feel and most of all how much he is jeopardizing his career. Tell him that time lost would never come back again and he would do nothing but regret it later in life however successful he is.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
25 Aug 10
It is very sad to hear this.That idiotic fellow has done well for himself so far by studying and gettig marks.He would only go back to poverty if he is not going to buck up.Talk to him patiently and let him see sense.I feel really sorry for him.
• India
25 Aug 10
actually the second person i mentioned above is a poor boy, and his parents are daily labours, his father is suffering with a disease, his family run by his mother only, and her mother is working on tailoring machine. that is his position. (sorry for the late reply, actually yesterday i am going to my sisters home because of rakhee festival)
@swapnam (62)
• India
27 Aug 10
I don't know about his(your friend) life style and his daily life and other lot of issues, so i think it is not correct to pass out a blind comment. But that type of behaviour is not appreciable.
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• India
27 Aug 10
you right swapna.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Aug 10
they really need to put energies around to learning parting can come later
• India
25 Aug 10
actually they don't know about their future and outside business world
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
25 Aug 10
then they better think on it and get to know the outside world
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Aug 10
rameshchow why not get ahold of some real engineers who took the college courses and are wor king and excellent in their career, and have them talk to the class of kids who are losing the imputus it takes to really succeed in engineering. they could give the kids some real pointers on acing their studies and show them that engineers have a great field in electronic and communications , that this is the biggest thing going now days a nd a good electronics and communications engineer makes a lot of money.
• India
23 Aug 10
ya, you are right, but practically it is not easy.
• United States
23 Aug 10
Perhaps suggest some tutoring or assist them with mentoring. Speaking to them the importance of putting forth more effort will be a pay-off in the end. You would be a great person for someone like that to listen to by the way.
• India
23 Aug 10
ya, thats what i am doing regularly, thank you very much for your sweet words..
• China
24 Aug 10
i think you are clever. you know what should do as a student. when i am in school i find the same problem about my classmates and friends as you. at first i had try my best to persuade them. you know it is useless. so i give up. the only thing i can do is doing the things my own the best.